Hey, Darling Siestas!
I'm going to give you some of the goods on the wedding but first I must thank you so much for your prayers yesterday as we launched the revised version of Breaking Free here in Houston. WE FELT THE INTERCESSION! God brought us the most incredible group. They were a little timid but, actually, that's a good sign. It means a lot of them really are new to the environment and that's what we want! They should warm up in no time. I was so happy to see tons of new faces. A good number of older teenagers and college age girls, too. I want so much to see young women deal with their stuff with Jesus before they make huge life-altering decisions - like who they want to marry. I'm asking God to go ahead and weed out (and send to another Bible study) the (precious and dearly loved) ones that are just coming to come and leave us with the ones serious about BREAKING FREE even as early as next week. (That process usually takes about three weeks but I'm asking God to nail down our group quickly this time so we can begin to gel as a group and get that freedom train moving.)
If you have much familiarity with the studies, you probably know this is the one dearest to me because it is my life message and I had to fight the enemy and my past so ferociously to write it. It is the dearest and most personal thing that God has ever entrusted to me and a testimony of our journey together out of my grotesque bondage. It represents the deepest pain and highest joy of my life. Although Believing God (really Breaking Free, Part 2) is my favorite of the studies because it was the most fun for me (Esther, close 2nd!), Breaking Free is the one that is closest to my heart. As God brings us to mind, please continue to pray for Him to work miracle after miracle among the women in our group and to set captives free so thoroughly that they will never return to bondage. Thank you so much for caring for our home girls. They mean the world to me.
NOW, I do believe you and I have bigger fish to fry! WEDDING DETAILS! OK, let me tell you a little about how things transpired. Melissa and Colin knew each other (or more accurately - about each other) in high school. He was a year older but they passed each other in the halls and had a few mutual friends. Years passed. He went to school in New York State where he did his undergrad and grad work while she did the same in Chicago. A little over a year ago, their paths crossed again. I have never seen her more intrigued by anyone. She waited a while before she started bringing him around Keith and I so that she could keep us uninvolved until she knew if it was worth getting our radars up. (We're a VERY close family. Grin. And we don't keep our opinions to ourselves (even Curtis). So, in our family, if you don't want it openly discussed, you'd better keep it to yourself. And even then, we're probably going to be onto it. Because we can tell when someone looks guilty. Nothing but God is sacred at our house. And privacy? What the heck is that?????)
Quit getting me side tracked. Anyway, he's a businessman but his love-of-a-hobby is music and he writes, sings, and plays the guitar. The blend of business and art in him was just more than Melissa could resist. She also said something I found so hilarious that I laughed and slapped my knee for fifteen minutes. When I began to see that she was really falling for him (and we still had barely gotten to meet him), I said, "Honey, what is it you like so much about him?" (Translation: How can you like anyone that much that your parents don't even know? I thought we were closer than this.) She said, "Mom, he is the kindest person I've ever known." Then she paused a second, looked me straight in the eye, and blurted, "And he thinks TULIP is a flower." (TULIP is the acrostic for the five points of Calvinism. Melissa dearly loves the academic side of Bible study and, in the right setting, enjoys a good, healthy doctrinal debate but she adamantly did not want to marry it.) In other words, she found him completely refreshing. He's fairly new to this whole wild world of serious theology and is, in countless ways, a tremendous breath of fresh air to us.
And he liked her, too. She's such a (Godly) wildcat, she kinda gets under your skin.
Little by little, particularly since Melissa lived in Chicago, we got to know Colin and fell totally in love with him like she did. He looks you dead-on in the eyes when he talks to you and I like that in a person. He smiles easy and is fun to get tickled. He also didn't need our family to be perfect which was a relief. Colin has one of the sweetest servant-hearts I've ever seen in anyone. And Beanie liked him. We always do the Beanie test. She has very good taste. (You might think I'm overlooking Sunny but you need to know that Sunny doesn't like anyone but immediate family...and some of those more than others. Visitors are just extra baggage for her to have to guard. She finds their company exhausting and annoying and prefers to wait outside and bark until they're gone.) Importantly, Colin also liked Beanie and, had he not, that would have been the end of the family favor.
Oh, man! I'm running out of time! Just about to have a staff meeting! So I'll make the rest quick. Last October Colin took his life into his own hands and approached Keith to ask for Melissa's hand. This is the truest test of intent. Keith is - how shall I say? - terrifying. Very protective of his girls. But he likes Colin. Just can't help himself. So he relented and gave his blessing. Soon after that, Colin quietly and privately proposed to Melissa. That's his way and we're good with that. We'd rather him be more dramatic with his commitment than his proposal. We want a big love that lasts a lifetime. Not a big show that lasts thirty minutes.
We waited to announce it to you until the invitations went in the mail. We wanted you to be surprised (thanks for being so much fun about it! We read every comment!) and feel VERY invited to the wedding through your prayers. Melissa has chosen to have a smaller, more intimate church wedding than Amanda's (still called the Cinderella Ball at our house) because she wanted to serve a sit-down dinner to her guests at the reception. So, that's exactly what we're going to do and we are thrilled.
Does that satisfy a little curiosity? I'm tickled you wanted to know. I'm like that, too. I'm a hopeless romantic if you'll ever find one. You know what, Siestas? Amanda, Melissa, and I love you so much. We really, really do. One by one, you've stolen each of our hearts. You're such a blast to do life with. I may not have met you in person but I know so many of your "names" and even a little about you from your comments and, at this point, would even recognize many of your faces from your blogger pictures. I'd call that real. Have a blast with Jesus today! He's so worthy of your highest romance!
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