Today as I type this post I feel as though I am trying to take just a little sip of water out of an open fire hydrant. There are so many stories that I will never get the chance to tell. My heart and mind are processing so many things at one time that I am having a hard time sleeping at night even though I am beyond exhausted when my head hits the pillow. I can honestly say that this trip is one of the hardest things I have ever done but absolutely one of the most meaningful.
Yesterday I got an email from Amanda and she asked me if I could keep my eyes peeled open for a special child for her to sponsor. So, Amanda, what do you think about Latangi?

Is she too much or what? I met her today on one of our home-visits in an extremely poor village. She totally could have fit in my suitcase but I figured Living Proof wouldn’t completely support kidnapping so I relented. Amanda, you would have seriously died. Her Mother has the daunting task of raising four children singlehandedly since her husband died three months ago of a heart attack. Latangi, her Mom, and two of her siblings sleep in two tiny beds in a one-room 8x8 bamboo structure while her older brother sleeps on the hard cement floor. She currently has no sponsor with Compassion and while her Mom works during the day she is left all alone. She is four years old. Four years old and left alone all day to do heaven knows what. Just think, Amanda, if you sponsor her, Compassion International will provide the opportunity for her to be in school under the umbrella of the local church studying and learning skills during the day to dramatically boost her chances of survival.
There are hundreds of faces, hundreds of Indian children, who are just as precious and in just as dire circumstances who are in need of sponsors. You can take a look for yourself here or you can just click on the Compassion India banner on the left of our margin. The Compassion East India office partners with the local churches in a rigorous selection process to choose children who are in the greatest need of sponsorship. They are generally among the poorest of the poor in their area. I can assure you, every child you browse through on the Compassion website has a story that has the potential to change your life.
Today the Compassion East India office briefed us on some administrative issues. I’ve always wanted to use the word “briefed” because it makes me feel so Jack Bauerish. And now I have and it was fun. Anyway, each child has his or her own binder and inside that binder is a thick stack of papers that record everything from medical records to the complete log of child/sponsor correspondence. My new and absolutely hilarious friend and fellow blogger Pete Wilson and I were shocked to see that one of the children had been co-sponsored by two High School girls. Can you imagine? Instead of buying an expensive designer handbag or a new pair of heels, these two seventeen- year-old girls combined their money to bring some hope to a child in India they have never even met. It just downright blew our minds.
Can I just tell you that the more I fall in love with the people in Calcutta the more grateful I am that we serve a God who cares deeply about the poor? I could list verse after verse as far back as Genesis all the way through Revelation that reflect God’s concern for the poor and oppressed. I could quote the striking and slightly scary beatitudes in the gospel of Luke like “Blessed are you who are poor, for yours is the kingdom of God” but right now I am far too consumed with Isaiah 58, especially the first eleven verses. My Mom and Amanda both encouraged me separately with this chapter before I set off last week and I have been meditating on it throughout the week.
These verses have spoken to me in so many distinct ways over the past few days but I am especially stricken by Isaiah’s definition of true religion. I hope you'll take some time to study this passage on your own but in brief, the people of Israel cry out with frustration because they do not feel that God is responding to their pious fasting. The text goes on to convey that, in fact, God really isn’t all that impressed by their outlandish religious demonstrations like bowing their heads in “humility” or laying in sackcloth and ashes.
No.
His definition of fasting is cast in remarkably different terms. If the people of God want to fast in such a way that they just might get God’s attention then they need to start being agents of justice in a broken world. They need to stop believing that humility before God and apathy toward their fellow human beings, especially the poor and oppressed, could ever co-exist. They need to loosen the chains of injustice. Set the oppressed free. Share food with the hungry. Clothe the naked. The incredible part about this passage is the promise that if the covenant people of God would really truly fast in such a mind-boggling and earth-shaking way, then light will break forth like the dawn. The Lord will turn his ear toward them and His very glory will be their protection. I take so much heart in the fact that our God is a God who loves the people in Calcutta who are bound by the tight grip of poverty. That He thinks that caring for them is essential, that it is at the very core of our personal and corporate spirituality. What a vivid picture of the bountiful and impartial love of God.
Now I think we all know that God does care deeply about the poor. Scripture is blatantly clear about it but why do you think that God cares so deeply for the poor? Why would Jesus say, “Blessed are the poor” or why would James ask his readers “Did not God choose the poor of this world to be rich in faith and heirs of the kingdom”? What is, in your opinion, at the bottom of His love for the poor?
I am personally still thinking this through but I read something recently that Richard Bauckham wrote and it really rocked me. He said, “Poverty, in a sense, exposes the truth of the human situation in its need of God. It dispels the illusion of being self-sufficient and secure, with no need of God. The poor are those whose material condition enables them to see more clearly than most the human need to be wholly reliant on God. It is in this sense that the biblical poor are understood as paradigmatic in their faith.” (Richard Bauckham, Wisdom of James, disciple of Jesus the Sage, 190). I’m not sure how exactly to explain it, but this statement really resonated with me. Perhaps Jesus speaks of the poor as the paradigmatic people of God because the poor, kind of like the chronically ill, are most likely to recognize their utter need for God’s saving power. Perhaps the Lord commands the rich (which in context of our global economy is you and me, even the poorest among us) to empathize and identify with the plight of the poor and care for the needy so that they too can glean this truth. Humankind in its totality is completely dependent on God’s power and provision. There are no exceptions. All material wealth is fleeting and fading quickly.
What do you think?
I can’t wait to read your thoughts and opinions. I cherish you all. I mean it. I’m so grateful for all of your different personalities and perspectives. I’m deeply privileged to walk this journey with all of you.
One of my favorite shots of the children's little shoes: (P.S. Keely Scott, Compassion Photographer, rocks my face off)

Subrata and me. He wants to be a Policeman when he grows up so that he can take care of his Mom and she never has to go to work anymore. She cleans houses and he wants to do all the work for her so that she will be able to relax at home. He is seven. Seven-year olds shouldn't have to think about taking care of their Moms. But Subrata does.

A precious girl named Rinky Roy's little box where she places the treasures her sponsor has mailed her. She has the best sponsor ever. Her sponsor faithfully mails letters and has even bought her clothes and paid for a piece of furniture in their little tiny home. Rinky's sponsor repeatedly tells her how much she loves her. Rinky loves to study and has dreams to be a Doctor. Tell me Compassion International didn't have something to do with that.

Me talking with the little women about their favorite movies. They all apparently love Jurassic Park I, II, and III. Who would have thought? When did the third one come out anyhow?

185 comments:
Ironically, I think at the bottom of God's love for the poor is compassion. Compassion for the difficult journey they face. Compassion for the hardships they must endure.
Compassion.
Melissa, I can't even begin to imagine the thoughts running through your beautiful head or the beats of your heart in the CURRENT. But I am so every thankful for your taking time out of your trip to share this time with us. We love you and are covering you in prayer. Honestly, these pictures will be the undoing of me....spell-bound.
Lovingly,
Yolanda
The Journey Continues ~
Praying on my knee's for you daily!!!
Oh Melissa,
I wish you could fit all those precious little ones in your suitcase/ do you need me to send lots of BIG suitcases to bring them back here for me to raise!! I adore children of all ages!!!
Humble yourself in the presence of the LORD and HE will lift you up!!! Looks like you are exactly where you are supposed to be!!!
Amen!!
With "Heaven bound" blessings,
Kim Safina
http://www.kimsafinathejourneycontinues.blogspot.com
My daughter and 2 friends also sponsored a Compassion child while in high school and my daughter kept it up until finances became too tight in college.
Wow Melissa. This post is wonderful and endearing! And that little girl! Oh how precious!!!!! My hubby and I are desperately trying to get our finances in order so that we can sponsor a child. I am just falling in love entirely with all of these children.
Thanks for sharing!
Melissa,
"...The poor are those whose material condition enables them to see more clearly than most the human need to be wholly reliant on God."
This quote has made me think...
I think the world typically expects to see the poor and ill turn from God, seeing Him as either uncaring, or unwilling to provide. This quote made me see it differently, that perhaps they are drawn closer to Him by their desperate need. And in reaching out to help them, perhaps we can show them that yes He cares, and we ourselves are blessed in the process.
Keep the posts coming!
Much love,
Adrienne
The title says it all. Praying for you, and thankful to have already been blessed personally by your trip updates. Having been to several third world countries (not India), your words brought those memories back afresh. I am always reminded that WE have much more to learn from the poor than we have to teach. God has so much to teach us through them. Maybe even wants us to be MORE LIKE THEM. Ouch. While I can't believe God is pleased when children live in such poverty that their basic needs are not met, or that they are abused or taken advantage of (I am NOT saying that AT ALL), and I'm NOT AT ALL disagreeing with the WONDERFUL work Compassion and others are doing, but I hope that we (wealthy westerners) do not deprive the poor of the precious jewel they have that we STRUGGLE to find...total dependence on the Provider. Maybe I won't find the answer to that unless I literally give up everything for Him. Wow. Do you see what you've started here?! :)
Melissa, you have no idea how your words are touching us that are simply reading about your visit. I can't imagine how you are affecting those like Latangi that you are meeting. Thank you for doing this.
Melanie, I understand where you are coming from. These are difficult issues to talk about which is why I thought it would be a helpful discussion. Thank you for your comment.
I am praying for you! I know you will be processing the things you are seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting, and living, for a long time to come...My prayer is that God would open your eyes to where He is at work and where you can be of most use right now during your time there!
GOD BLESS YOU SISTER!
The Journey Continues ~
Precious Melissa,
I have a BIG REQUEST OF YOU!
As a mother of 2 sons,
(Dave and I wanted 4 children but had 2 preemies) and the doctor would not allow me to biologically have anymore children. Dave and I always prayed for 2 boys and 2 girls. We got 2 boys ~ now I would love to bless 2 little girls in Calcutta~India. I won't be their mother, but can be a blessing to the family with loving gifts,prayers,etc.
THIS IS MY REQUEST ~
Would you find two little girls for my husband and I to sponsor?
Two that totally touch your heart!!
I would be forever greatful!
With "Heaven Bound" blessings,
Kim Safina
please contact me via email
KLSAFINA@aol.com
http://www.kimsafinathejourneycontinues.blogspot.com
Melissa, before I could even finish reading this, Curt sent me a text from work and it said, "Sponsor that girl." Yes, we are in! I'm emailing you right now.
Kim, you are so sweet to want to sponsor two girls. I actually can't pick out two for you. I only did it for Amanda because she is my sister and she has been co-partnering with me on this project. If you click on the banner to the left of our blog it takes you straight to the Compassion India page where you will be able to view hundreds of kids that desperately need sponsors. Much love to you.
This is just too much for my heart to hold. So very rich in God's love for people.
Latangi is beautiful!
Do you know? We have a couple in our church that works for Compassion (just 7 minutes from where I'm sitting right now). He left his high paying job as a chemist to help with AIDS/HIV research and mission work. His stories are so beautiful (and scary, too), as he tells of going into places that are not very safe.
Also, he shares that his Compassion child (now an adult) that he sponsored since college heard about the Lord for many years through Scott. BUT, he wouldn't believe. Not until Scott actually went and visited, THEN the young man said he believed that Jesus was his Savior. For he wanted to meet his sponsor and know that he was real.
Praying for you and the team, Melissa.
Amanda,
Thanks for sharing your trip through the blog. I think Jack is absolutely right in his quote. When you are that poor and there seems to be no way to get your needs met, there is no one other than God to turn to. Shouldn't it be easier for those of us that have our basic needs being met, to depend on him for our needs. I guess sometimes it takes us to hit bottom before we ever start looking up. My prayers are with you and all of us that you are touching by sharing your feelings and deep thoughts.
Jan
Hmmmm, I could spend all day meditating on God's love for the poor (very thought-provoking).
Here are my initial thoughts on what is at the bottom of God's love for the poor...
Their hearts are pure.
They are humble.
They can't use self-indulgence to mask their *real* need.
They haven't become self-righteous.
They haven't allowed "the things of this world" to put a relational wall between them and their Maker.
We feel so sorry for them (and we should!), BUT they could/should feel equally as sorry for US...
that we have SO MUCH that can get in the way of us seeing & knowing our DESPERATE need for a Savior!
Thank you Melissa for showing me a little glimpse of what God is doing in a place that I have never gotten the opportunity to step foot in. God is totally in love with the people of India and has a mighty plan for their lives and what a wonder that He would open up the web to show all of us what He is doing. Today I needed to see what God is concerned with and I praise Him that He used you to show me His passionate love for the people of India. May His light burst forth through all His people.
Praying for you,
Sarah Rader
Burlington, KY
O.K. Melissa...I'm In. I have 4 daughters, so find me a son! I would love to sponsor a sweet litle boy....
Humbly HIS,
Allison
P.S.For heavens sake... I am so thankful you did not throw up on Mother Teressa! You make me laugh girl!!!
Thank you for your post...I don't have the gift of words but so appreciate one who does. Thank you for sharing your experiences and for working to make the connection between children and sponsors in such a concrete, personal way.
What a great post... I love the last picture, the girls are looking at you like you a rock star, and all it took to get that look was love..
I think what you posted about the poor is right on.. And the poor have such a right thinking, because they are the first to see we need each other, when we are on the other side we tend to only see ourselves.. A rich man can live in more self pity than a poor man can fathom
Ps I am going now to sponser a child now, and I am a single mom with two kids, I wait tables and am still trying to get back in college...so if I can do it we all can. thanks Melissa for the dose of real
Melissa, I was undone, went to Compassion and am so dad gum excited with a beautiful little girl from India. I can't wait for the packet to come in the mail! Love, Yolanda
Wow. Melissa, thank you so much for your obedience in going to India. I can imagine it is exhausting and thrilling at the same time.
My husband will be out of a job next month and it has really shaken us up. Helped us to refocus on the Lord. We are being refined and leaning on the Lord more than ever. I know that I will never be poor like the people there, but I want more than anything the JOY and security that comes from God alone.
Thanks for shaking me out of my self-centered, subburban life!
Jenny from VA
Melissa, thank you for sharing this journey with us. I (like some of the other comments) and convicted of how rich we are and how much that interrupts our reliance on God. And, how pure the poor are in their openess to Him. What a responsibility we have to these beautiful people... we have no earthly idea what it must be like to live in those situations. Thank you for awakening us to this truth and to our ability to love on these folks through our generosity of that which is not even truly ours, but the Lord's. Praying for you all....
Caveat: of course this is a generalization, and generalizations by nature oversimplify, but I believe that we who are "rich" live farther from the truth than the "poor" do. The truth is that we all are destitute, utterly and completely without hope or health when we remain mired in our innate alienation from the One Who Is Life. We who are rich often use our resources not for reconciliation to the One Who Is Life but for hiding from and insulating ourselves from Him. We use our wealth to mask our need of Him. The poor do not have the dubious luxury of that particular palliative. Their struggles are different, but in the matter of knowing the true condition of humanity, they are often light years ahead of the wealthy.
Let's just say that your talent with the words is patently evident. What you've been writing has been so powerful and so impacting. Just your ability to express what is seemingly inexpressible is remarkable. Thank you for allowing your heart to be broken for God and to then be brave enough to share it.
I think you're sitting in the middle of it when you say that God favors the poor because they have so much need for God and His grace and mercy. By having a heart for the poor not only do we enable ourselves to in some small way be a conduit of that mercy but to receive it ourselves in a way that is perhaps more unmistakeable than it is in our own lives. In our lives of privilege it's easy to think that much of our own power can carry us through day to day. Not necessarily carry us well, but that's the image we like to project. The desperate can't waste time on pretense and hope to survive.
Praying for you all daily... blessings on you all.
I think poverty, grief, sorrow, and pain, go to a place so deep in our spirits that when it is touched by God's love the effect cannot be denied, the balm over us so dear and poignant that it cannot be ignored or forgotten. Like your dear mother I am a person of bondage set free, and often thought of as fanatic in my faith, but I answer, were your captivity so great, and your hopelessness so complete you too would hang on with abandon to the God who set you free. This adventure dear girl, is the cure for a life of relative comfort and ease, you are precious and I have tears in my eyes as I realize the deep and eternal things being worked into your spirit today.( wish with all my heart I were there), May your words bring many sponsers to these children and may your heart and soul expand with this amazing and important work, so humble and close to the Father's heart. When God came in the flesh it was the poor that he choose to identify with. Shalom
Girl.
That will PREACH.
And can Keely rock a head scarf or what?
I think the poor have such a great desire for God because they don’t try to fill voids with material possessions. They rely on one another for emotional stability and support and just like that little boy, want to help their families rest, succeed and prosper. And not in the way our society defines those things. Thank you Melissa, for sharing your journey in India with all of us! I pray our hearts are opened to receive what we hear and see also.
I was about 2 secs from posting a comment that said, "If Amanda doesn't, then I will!" Then I saw Amanda's comment! So proud for the newest "member" of the Jones family! That precious child took my heart. I can't imagine your emotions after being up close & personal to her.
Find me another one. K?
Robyn
You are in my prayers, Melissa!
What a humbling experience. To think that when we get hot... we can go in our nice A/C homes and cars.... we complain when our makeup sweat off... but they just want shoes to wear.
Wow, I've got to do a mission trip. God gives grace to the humble and strength to the weak. Bless His Holy Name.
Awesome post. I've been thinking about sponsoring a child through Compassion, and you certainly making that decision a no-brainer.
And love how you worked in the "24" reference.
Amazing! Keep up the great work Melissa. To God be the GLORY!
Ohhhhh-God's timing is so right on!
I am studying for Wednesday night class page 89 of "Stepping Up" -
and Beth talks specifically about
the Feast of Weeks being a time for great generosity - free will
giving - oh I could go on. It ties
so in with your post Melissa about
Compassion, the children, our God -
well, i have to tell you I now have a 4 year old child named "Mercy" - in Kenya, in an aids infested area. The depth of grace given to me has manifsted itself in a baby child named Mercy.
Thank you, Melissa. Wow. We are praying for you and your team. I know that the Lord is using you as you are there! I want those kids under my roof!
The Lord first used Isaiah 58 in my life a few years ago. I knew what God specifically spoke to my heart through these verses. He wanted me to fast for the poor, and to share my bread with the poor. He placed on my heart two worthy ministries to become part of. And I sponsor a precious little girl in Bolivia through Compassion, but I feel as though I could burst into tears. It blows my mind to think of so many desperate children. Though my sponsored little one is in S.A., I feel as though you represent all of us. Thank you for going. It has to be heartwarming and heartbreaking. I'm praying for you and your team.
With love, Deidra
Melissa!
I think God has such a heart for the poor because....
We all have so little to offer him without what He gives us through His grace, yet we have a world of things to cover and hide ourselves in. to make excuses and keep ourselves busy with. We think we're sacrificing, by getting designer shoes on sale or having to eat mac and cheese for dinner cause we're low on groceries. The poor and destitute would most likely shout praises and savor each bite! Poor us that we have a busy week of work or carting children around to a million different activities- yet here we are, with cars to do it and heated homes to return to with our own beds to crash on after a full day. And we just think it's so hard sometimes. But I can only imagine what His heart must feel like to look upon a people, a child who has NOTHING, who as a 4 year old stays at home ALL day alone that so many people go through each day not giving a thought to, let alone doing something about it. His heart must just melt for them and want for them to know how much they are Loved.
I am so guilty. A thought is just a thought unless you do something about it.
Melissa,
I think in terms of both salvation and our relationship with Christ desperation can be a gift. Being poor (and desperate) pulls out all the false props we so foolishly rely on. In addition, poor people are often real. They don't wear masks and put up a good front. They acknowledge they are desperate and I believe God loves the authenticity. The truth is, the richest man in the world is desperate as well. He just might not know or admit it. I am praying for you daily.
In Him,
Susan
Nashville, TN
Yea! I am so glad God is moving your heart for the poor of India. God has made my heart melt for them, especially the children. You just can't help but fall in love with their beautiful faces. And yes, God shamelessly loves the poor.
I am a nurse and when I came home from my trip to Delhi this past Feb, my workmates just didn't get the concept of my trip to India. They expected me to have done some medical work, and when I would simply reply, "Nope, I just went to love on some children," they wouldn't know how to respond. The body of Christ gets it, but the world may never understand the importance of your hugs, smiles, and love you are showering on these children. They will never forget you!
PS Your hair looks way better then mine did. I wore a hat the entire trip becuase I was afraid the outlets would blow up my blow dryer!
What beautiful Indian children! What a beautiful American woman that has traveled many miles to meet them! Thank you Melissa for taking some of your precious time needed for resting and sending the post and pictures! It really brings it home to me!
My thoughts on why God uplifts the poor: I think that usually the more money and possessions we have, the farther we get from poverty, the more we rely on ourselves rather than on God. Many rich people feel they don't "need" anything or anybody....and that they especially don't need God. On the other hand, the truly poor recognize that they have Nothing except for what God provides for them through different ways and means and people. It is then easy for them to see they have "needs" and for them to realize that Christ wants to meet their needs....physical and spiritual. I think God wants us to admit that we totally need Him for everything.
I pray that I may seek ways to better help the poor that I come in contact with.
May God bless you Melissa for being a "doer of the Word and not a hearer only".
Marilyn
P.S. Still praying you won't come down with a migraine. I used to have them and know how they can totally incapacitate you!
Melissa - I am praying for you! May God continue to give you a glimpse of His great love for the people of India. We sponsor a girl in Peru - one of my daughters longs to go to Peru as a missionary one day - our God is BIG and I am in awe of His Mighty Power! May you treasure all of these things in your heart always!
Mary Ann
Wichita Falls
Praying for headache free time in India Melissa!
Thank you for sharing these moving thoughts and pictures. God has so much to refine in us. I am reminded about how similar we are to the Israelites. Our intentions are good, but like in James we forget who we are in some areas when we walk away from the mirror.
How do we make the memories stay etched in our hearts with the same impact forever?
Have a wonderful time! Kiss a few extra kids for me!
Love to you,
Jina
Melissa,
Oh, my...this is about three posts beautifully wrapped in one! Have you heard from Amanda yet? Did she say "yes"? After hearing about Latangi, I cannot imagine anyone being able to say "no" (you know where your sister's Achilles heel is, huh? ;) ).
I hear your heart beating throughout this post; and I think it's wonderful for you to have experienced this kind of trip so early in your marriage. I know you've grown up in amazing ministry at home, but this thing is yours. It's shaping who you are, further refining who you'll become...and it's a beautiful work in process.
Your exposition of Isaiah 58 caught my attention; I love how God refuses to "be" the expected, to be the God of our making. We want to fashion Him in a way that makes sense to us, forgetting that's impossible pursuit. Or maybe being too arrogant to believe it.
Oh! And I almost forgot--the Jack Bauer reference? Ha! Loved it! You're quite the spy-girl ;).
Looking forward to the rest of our week together, realizing our time is running out fast!
xo
Melissa, I am so glad that God is using you. Each of these children are precious. Will continue to pray for you while you are over in India.
Wow, keep telling us more! It's so awesome to hear you journey through this amazing chapter in your life. I totally get what your saying about us living in a world of riches and not really seeing the poor. I know it seems wrong in the world's view, but the poor being blessed is true. The poor literally live out Matthew 6:25-34. Anyway, the posts on here are great, and the question was very thought provoking! You have a way with words. Thanks for allowing God to speak through you to us!
Amber
Melissa,
Praying for you at least 2 times a day. Is there a certain prayer that you have now that you didn't before you left. Please let us know.
Loved your comment.. blows my mind... it hurts to think outside of our protected world. Thank you for being the eyes, ears, and loving warm hands for us.
Love, Amy -GA
Melissa;
I totally understand about your trip being one of the hardest things you have ever done and yet the most meaningful. Having been to a third world country it is so mind boggling. It is so hard not to come home change in some way. And I agree a seven year old should not have to worry about his mother like that. We sponsor a child in another 3rd world country. You comments definitely have this girl thinking, Kim B. in AZ
I typed and erased 4 answers already. This is so real and so to the core, that there's not one answer I can pin it down to. When you have absolutely nothing, you don't need to impress others, be something you're not, put on and take off masks for appearances -- the dependence on Him for your everything is REAL. The way He wants us to want Him and need Him. No matter what's in our closet or our pantry or our bank.
I spent 2 hours last night pouring over the children in India on Comapssion's site. Reading their stories, looking in their eyes... I didn't sponsor one yet, because honestly (here come the tears) I couldn't pick one. How do you click on one when all those other precious eyes are needing you to click on them too?
So I decided to let my children get on here one night this week and look at them all. My daughter is 8 and has been BEGGING me for 2 years to have another baby. She wants a sister so badly. I think I'll let her pick her sister herself. And help me write to her and support her through Compassion.
Thanks Melissa, for being a do-er, and sharing the stories.
much love,
Lavonda
Atlanta, Ga
Love the pictures and the post.
Isaiah 58 is a little deep for this over-busy and over-the-top day I've already had but sometime I'll camp out on it, pinky promise.
Your stories and pictures and testimony have completely inspired me to sponsor a Compassion child. Thinking it may be a be just the substitute for my Mother's Day gift that will be something I don't even need anyway! What do you think?
My heart was tugged for India while listening to a Caedmons Call CD called Share the Well. The whole CD made my non-missionary-called and hate-to-travel-heart yearn for the day when I will be able to share the hope of Jesus while serving the poor. Specifically in India. I am drawn to the people. I can't wait to serve them someday.
I was just watching "Measureless Love" this morning, your mom said something that jumped out at me. "All excess is rooted in emptiness." This is not a new thought for me, but coupling it with your post, it has made me very contemplative this afternoon.
We (and I am making a generalization) sit here in our homes, with our television(s), computer(s), ipod(s), cell phone(s), xbox, closets full of clothing, warm/cool air coming from our registers, cupboards full of food,-yet we still want more. --The poor, yes, they realize their need for God, probably because the distractions that keep people from recognizing their need are not there. Their blessing truly is because when they come to Him, they are FILLED!
Sorry if this is redundant to what others have posted, but it is on my heart. I want to be SO filled with the Spirit of God that the anointing pours out onto others! I want the "things" in my life to ALWAYS be low on the priority list and the needs of PEOPLE always supersede my desire to have more stinking STUFF!
I pray that you will be so filled with the Spirit of God that it will leak all over! Praying for the team too!
Oh, Melissa--you have a huge heart and I'm sure it's growing by the minute. The children are beautiful and to think the one little girl saves her treasures like so many of our own children.
Thank you for sharing with us, I have a feeling that Compassion's sponsor list is going to grow a great deal after your trip.
Love & Blessings, Bobbie
How overwhelming the need of these little angels is for me. I have looked at the Compassion site sooo many times and I just can't bring myself to choose just one (or 2,3,4,5,6...) How do you really figure out which one? I am praying like crazy and am going to talk with my kiddos when they get home today. I think we can swing sponsoring one child by collecting popcans. I guess I will let the kids choose who they want to send special gifts to.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking this journey and allowing us to peer in via your posts. It is amazing to and for me!
Blessings
Kelli in Colorado
praying for the rest of your time there Melissa. What a blessing to see first hand at the Love passing through these children who have wonderful families in the US to support them. My husband and I sponsor one child now, and are praying for a possible second. I know that I never feel like what we are doing is enough for this little one, but I guess God will continue to stretch me in this process. Maybe someday I will venture that direction and have the experience of being there in Person to love on all of those Children of the King. Keep Shining for Him!
Melissa WOW is all I can say!
God bless!
Keep up the great work Melissa! To God be the GLORY!!
Melissa,
Your work in India is going to have a powerful effect this through blog- I have no doubt. You have moved me! God's timing is so amazing- just a few weeks ago was the first time I ever heard of Compassion International on a web banner of biblegateway. I was curious, and wanted to know more. All the sudden I see Travis Cottrell's blog where he's visiting his sponsored children and now you sharing the intimate details of how wonderful this organization is- I am convinced! And convicted! And signing up to sponsor two TODAY. Thank you for being our eyes and ears to hear what God is telling us about helping those in need!
friend.
vernon and i have been praying for you on this amazing trip. our hearts are beaming that you are being able to share the stories of these children. you know our heartbeat is to care from orphans and widows in their distress. (james 1:27) it is what we have given our lives to.
i loved the Bauckman quote. every trip to sudan, every email from them, every call and every story i am reminded of our false securities here. we fight hard against the ways of the west yet it is so easy to quickly forget that GOD is the provider and giver of ALL things.
just the other day a girl pointed out that I always wear the same pair of heels on sunday morning to lead worship in. i relpied to her that i am simpleton. why do i need more than one or two? she was astounded. BUT now each week when i get ready for church, i feel the pressure to buy more shoes..."what if EVERYONE is noticing?" I want to run out and get what i am told i "need." I love that in Luke 12 Jesus speaks to our food water and being clothed...nessecity not excess.
Melissa. we are so proud of you for going. we are praying for Colin, for I know how hard it is for Vernon to be away, I cant imagine the intensity when it is the man who stays and he lets the one he is protecting go!
anyway, keep telling their stories. thanks friend!
Well words seem so insignificant right now, I don't really know what to say. Thank you blogging through this, it's been eye opening to read!
Beautifully Written! How could anyone resist such sweet faces!
WOW, what an amazing experience you are living! I've been wondering what the poor means in the beatitudes too. This part of your quote spoke to me,"The poor are those whose material condition enables them to see more clearly than most the human need to be wholly reliant on God."
Here's my question, I live with a continual guilt/fear because of 'the poor' in other parts of the world. I mean we live in America! I feel guilt for wanting a pottery barn this or that for my baby. I mean is it sinful and shallow to want nice things, since there are children that have no shoes or food!?!
And a fear that, "Well, is God going to turn the tables around one day? Will the USA one day be in poverty too? Will we lose it all?" So is wanting/having nice things an affront to the poor?
An affront to Jesus who had no place to lay his head? Should we live way below our means instead of trying to have a nice this and that?
Do you ever struggle with this?
Melissa, thank you so much for posting this. I feel like I am with you on this trip.
I am praying for you and the others, too.
Melissa,
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. Eye opening is an understatement. Much to consider. Much to pray about. You are all in my prayers.
Melissa, I have been just this week reading some Abraham Heschel, and what he calls divine pathos - that God is a God of emotion and feels deeply. I am so taken with this! Perhaps at the bottom of God's heart for the poor is that He really does, literally feel their pain and hunger and difficulties. His heart is for them because His heart is broken with theirs - their pain is His, their hunger is His. And perhaps He is letting you in on a teensy bit of that. I don't know if I am right in this - just putting it out there because I have been thinking about it so much. Heschel may have shuttered at my attempt to discuss his very deep ideas with my shallow interpretations!!! But you asked!!
Cara
I love this so much. Thanks so much for sharing. It's funny because Isaiah 58:11 was my "life verse" ever since I became a Christian - it's such a beautiful promise! But it was only about 2 years ago that I took the time to read the part that comes before it . . . the part about IF you love and care for the poor, then you will be blessed with His promises. Ever since then, my hubby and I have been trying to really live out the words and commands of Jesus - and He said, more than anything else, that we need to LOVE and serve the "least of these"
Hey Melissa I just got my girl
Preeti from India, she is a beautiful 6 year old and has four siblings.
My kids wanted to pick them all, so did I.. I often would look at the compassion web site and feel hopeless because there are so many kids, but close your eyes and pick one...........They all need us. I can not wait to write her a letter.
Melissa, We could be friends, for real!!
You asked what we thought, I think that the Lord is serious about the poor, widows and orphans. Just read Exodus 22:22, I cried my eyes out when I read this.
In Acts 2:45 we are told that after they received the gift of the Holy Spirit, they were selling their possessions and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need.
And then...
In Acts 4:34, we are told that so much grace was upon them, that as a result of all the belivers selling their possessions, "There was not a needy person among them".
Oh God, give us that grace!
My husband and I have taken seriously this call to sell our possessions and give to the poor. It is such a burning desire in me, that the Lord Jesus, had nothing. He was not lofty, He was a servant, and a servant is not above his master.
Melissa, we (my husband and I) by no means have arrived, oh how I am learning. But I tell you this only to show you how horribly attached to my possessions I was.
We have been raising money for our adoptions for our 3 Ethiopian kids. We had asked people to pick and item in their home and sell it and donate the money. We went a step futher and asked them to sell a "first fruits", as David said, "I will not sacrifice something to the Lord which cost me nothing".
It worked, people did!!
THEN, the Lord asked us to do the same. We had sold some things, but this one HURT. We learned of a ministry called "With This Ring". The ministry is focused on digging well's in Africa using the money from the sale of wedding rings!
We prayed and I cried and sold both of our sets, and ALL of our fine jewelry including my grandmother sets and my mom's (she died last year). I am embarrased to say, that I mourned this "stuff". I can't believe how hard it was.
Then...God blessed. People read our blog and the Lord moved. Friends came and gave us gold jewelry to sell. I think that we raised about $4000 with this. I do miss my rings at times, they meant so much, but with our rings, we have brought hope to the hopless. IT IS WORTH IT!!
Imagine what could happen if we as belivers, let go of earthly treasures, and held on tight to the heavenly ones!! We could affect the lives of millions, for the Kingdom of God! It is not enough to say "Jesus Loves you" to a starving child, we must ACT.
Oh...I feel like jumping out of my skin, I am so...excited!!! Thanks for sharing your heart and thanks for letting me share mine.
Hey Melissa--
This is one of those topics where I have thought about it so much I can't condense it to a few words...but I'll try.
I think in part God hates suffering. Hates it. And the poor suffer disproportionately. I think God created an earth that has enough for all of us and he is angry when some don't have enough, because it means, in essence, it was stolen from them. As Dorothy Day once said, "If you have two coats, you've stolen one of them." (By that measure I have stolen, like, seven people's coats.)
I think God is basically on the side of the underdog, whether it's Gideon or the woman caught in adultery or the kid in India (or the South African township--you know where my heart is). That's my liberation theology kicking in. ;)
I think God created us not to be independent but to be interdependent. We need each other. We are supposed to do this thing together. The Bible wasn't written to individuals, but to people--to the people of Israel, to the churches in various cities; even Philemon is to Philemon "and the church that meets in your house." We are inextricably bound up with each other. And when some among us are poor, then the rest of us have abdicated our responsibility.
I don't think the poor are "pure of heart" or innocent or any other Dickensian terms, and if we think that, then when we actually encounter them we'll be disillusioned. They aren't all those big-eyed kids in the Keane paintings. Hard lives can make hard people, and I think God hates to see that too. It creates such a distortion of the Imago Dei.
But I keep coming back to the idea of what we were created for--birthed in Eden and ending in the new heaven and new earth. And in between is a world twisted by our own greed and grasping and selfishness, and the poverty of our neighbors reveals that more clearly than anything else.
But to be honest, my theology is as much visceral as intellectual here. My kiddo--not my Compassion kid, but a kid who's been with me on and off for years, since he was barely 6; he is 13 now--is from Congo and his immediate family are the only survivors of the Rwandan genocide. Phen still has night terrors of men banging at the door in the middle of the night to take his father to jail. *Who else's* side would God be on in that situation? You can bet it's on the side of that terrified 4-year-old boy. (By the way, he is an honors student in the 7th grade who plays football and soccer and excels at African drum and dance...and still has night terrors. But he is a sign of resurrection power in the world.)
This is going to be as long as your post soon so I'm signing off. I'm so excited for you!
First of all, yes, I am a guy who peeks in on the LPM blog from time to time. I've even "listened in" to Believing God - hope that's okay (we actually did a co-ed study at work a few years ago...the guys even sported a blue silicone FAITH bracelet, of the manly sorts of course). Now that I've outed myself, I'll share my reason for writing today.
My wife is head over heels in love with Jesus, and He has used Beth Moore in ways that I cannot effectively communicate with words (and by the way, is BethMoore all one word? Not sure why we can't just all say Beth...instead of BethMoore). :) The LPM blog is linked on our family blog, so it's easy for me to, once again, check in to see what's up in Beth-land...or Siestaville...or whatever this place is called. When I found out that you, Melissa, were going to India, I knew then that I would be following your journey...and that I have. On a very personal and serious level, you have captivated me and encouraged me with your words. I have and will continue to pray for you and the Compassion team as you continue on in your God-filled journey.
My wife and I, along with our kids, are moving to that part of the world very soon, not because we're Xtreme Christians, or that God needs us...but because He has told us. As we prepare to finish up our work and school here in God's country, uh Texas, your post today is what He knew I needed to finish up strong as one chapter closes and a new one opens. To hear stories of such poverty...and to see their smiles anyway - seriously, am I honestly going to complain about giving up my truck in a few weeks...my microwave, my bed with the most comfortable mattress/box springs ever!!?!? Shame on me. Shame on us. I don't think that God necessarily had you post your journeys so far to make us feel shame (but maybe). I do, however, feel that He is using your words and your journey to Calcutta to remind me, and perhaps others, that our material things are not the end all, be all. We need a reality check and our stuff ain't it. Madame Blueberry, where are you???
What I love about Compassion is that they recognize how it can sometimes be difficult to reach someone spiritually when basic physical needs aren't being met (not saying God's not capable of that - He is). I love the story about the newly adopted Latangi...how her basic educational needs will now be a part of her reality...but more important from an eternal perspective, she will soon be "in school under the umbrella of the local church." Yes, she will receive an education, but God's up to something bigger in Latangi's life, I just know it. Bless you, Curtis and Amanda. Little Latangi's life is about to be rocked in a huge God-way!!
I apologize for going on, but my heart is full and I just needed to thank you, Melissa, for sharing the details of your mission. My wife and I were just talking about your journey. You've got to know that you have a family here in TX that has a vested interest in that part of the world...a love for a people they've never even met. We will be praying with you, and for you, as you journey on.
In closing, I'm not sure if I'll ever get brave enough to post again, so I'd be remiss to not thank your family for who you guys are in Christ. I know, I know, your family is just a normal family, but I also know (and have witnessed first hand) how God is powerfully working through you. Granted, there are some who are more "behind the scenes" than others, but you are each making a difference. Would love the opportunity to meet you all one day. Curtis, a special shout-out to you, my brother. Looking forward to finals being over next week so I can check out your Podcast!!
Until all have heard,
Steve
Wow, Melissa! Loving reading your posts.....It IS so easy to get so overwhelmed when you see SO much poverty....The last time I was in India, I met a lady named "Annapurna" which means "sufficiency"....God used her to remind me that only HE is sufficient to meet the needs of the world....and we get the blessing of being used, if we let Him use us!
I also can't resist throwing out the other verse that came to my mind about God's heart for the poor and needy, the verse from James about caring for widows and orphans...That's surely what Compassion enables Western believers to do, and in a way that allows children to remain with their families....
And if someone is REALLY ready to go a little deeper, I know of 5 ADORABLE little ones in India that NEED families to adopt them and save them from growing up in institutions that are NOT going to tell them about Jesus....If anyone is interested, please email me privately:
bhenderson@q.com
Praying for God's hand on you!
Lisa H.
Oh how these pictures touch my heart. I want to hug these sweet faces.
I love your thoughts and insights regardng the poor. I think you are absolutely right - our affluent culture seems to have no need for God - we have everything we need. But truly we are some of the most bereft people spiritually.
Thank you for letting us see through your eyes.
You are in my prayers.
Sister Lynn
Wow. Thanks for speaking to us at the deepest places! I am so guilty with Israel for piousness and religion without heart. Who among us haven't been? God's heart for the poor is overwhelming. Mine has not been so much. I can see I've got some repenting to do for being calloused. I pray God will continue to show Himself to you on this ever-so-important-journey! Thanks for letting us tag along.
I have four children of my own, and due to debt had to go to work part-time about a year ago. The sin issues have been worked through, but the consequences still linger. I cannot stand leaving my little ones knowing they are being taken care of. My heart breaks for these mothers! May God bring deliverance through many Compassion Sponsors! Praise you, Jesus for caring!
Melissa,
I think God loves the poor because we all ARE!! We all come to Him poor in spirit and in grace and He longs to give us wealth of spirit and abundant grace.
Let me give you a quote that so fits your post. It is from Francis Chan's book "Crazy Love" and it says, "Lukewarm people do not live by faith; their lives are structured so they never have to. They don't have to trust God if something unexpected happens--they have their savings account. They don't need God to help them--they have their retirement plan in place. They don't depend on God on a daily basisi--their refrigerators are full."
I believe that God loves the poor because they are not like that. They need Him and all too often, we rich Americans don't NEED Him!
Doesn't that just slay you?
Leah
Melissa,
These children are precious. My thirteen year old daughter has been saving money to sponsor a child. Upon opening money from her Paw-paw for her birthday, she was counting and took out her 10% to place in her jar. I was overwhelmed with her love and care for those in need. She is so young and the Lord has impressed on her heart. Praise the Lord! Our children are open to the voice of the Lord. I will show her these faces. May God continue to bless you on your journey.
I wonder if it's (in part, in whole?) His absolute, unabashed delight that they "get it."
What a precious little girl!
Melissa, I don't know how to convey this accurately in words, but I am praying for you and your team to be able to get your minds and hearts around this experience to the extent God allows- not only now, but more realistically in the coming weeks and months. God bless, sister.
Awesome! thank you, Melissa. I think it is so cool that you got to pick out that girl for your sister. So sweet! What a special bond.
I love Pete Wilson, too. He is an amazing Preacher. I listen to his sermons each week on their website.
Thanks for he blog!
Shawn, Georgia
Melissa:
I want to cry and leap for joy after seeing the pictures and reading your blog today!
I am going to the Compassion link and get it goin'. Thank you Melissa for sharing these great pictures and your scripture revelations. Most of all thank you for taking all of us along with you. I wanted to be right along side of you in that circle of friends. How utterly beautiful are all of you.
God Bless you girl and may God continue to pour out His majesty on you and the kids!
Peace and love,
Theresa
Pace, Florida
Thanks you for taking this trip and allowing us to get a glimpse as well. When you get back home, please write lots of blog entries about this trip. I want to read your about your experiences and insights!
I'm praying that a LOT of kids get sponsors.
Yes. Compassion.
Thanks so much for sharing, Melissa.
Much love,
Sharon, NC
Melissa - thanks for sharing your trip (and heart) with us. I know this is life-changing for you.
I was just whining today about having to cut back on spending and how I am unable to buy a Grande Starbuck's White Mocha Decaf everytime I turn around. Then I was struck by the thought that I should hope for more money to help someone in greater need and not be worrying about my Starbuck's addiction. :o)
Your posts have touched my heart. May I move on from compassion to action! Thank you.
Busy shoes, dinosaurs, and Isaiah. Wow - I'm loving your trip so far!
Warm in Alaska (but clearly not as warm as you)
Sweet Melissa,
All of this brings back special memories of my trip to India in '04. These people are so precious, so loving, so giving. Reflecting back to your first India blog post - I too received honor that was not due me. It was for the many who had come before me, doing the more strenuous work of love. But I was the one (with the 7 others I was with) whom they gave a trophy too. Can you imagine? A trophy! I silently bawled. Tears streaming down my face that I couldn't stop. Beautiful people suffering so much thinking I should be thanked for simply coming to them just blew my mind. I have that trophy in my hutch, ever reminding me of those precious people and of God's amazing grace to let me go on that trip. I have pictures of me with the children too - my favorite pictures.
Melissa, God spoke to me through your words about fasting. I believe he wants me to fast in this way: Whatever I would normally spend on myself, I need to spend on helping those in need instead. Fast from spending on me! Goodness knows I have everything I could possible want already and yet I find more to spend my money on. Thank you for being God's instrument there and here, in Alaska. :) Keep writing and sending your pictures. You are in my prayers. Love U much, Jax
Wow. Melissa, you have made us speechless and prayerful. Thank you for sharing.
I think...that I am screaming halleluJAH that God sent you to India! Thank you for your faithfulness Melissa. You have a gift for conveying the message and the mission. I am praying for all of you each day..and your loved ones. Thanks for being willing...to go, to see, to open your heart, and to share it with us. You've reached my spiritually poor soul this evening. God bless your journey.
Melissa -very thought provoking and have been for a few hours now. We here allow so many non-essential things to become distractions -idols-in our lives that we have to get through the "muck" to realize our constant need of Jesus. There in India-they don't have that -they are just in desperate need to survive. The bottom line-we all are in a constant deep need of Jesus to fill our lives-not just our stomachs with food. I know it's not all about the food but other needs for these families to help them. Just something the Lord has been telling me here the past few days-quit finding other things to fill up the void only I can fill. Your not gonna find it in food, shopping or filling your mind with mindless TV shows-just Him and His word-nothing else. So thankful that I have the opportunity to do just that and the bible to read and the understanding when I do read, a place I can go worship corporately and a women's ministry that I am a part of to share with and be blessed by. Thanks for your work and sharing with us. I am blessed-you be blessed-praying for you.
Melissa-Girl,
Been keeping up with your trip, little sis. Words can't even describe how much I am there with you in Spirit. Having gone to Zambia twice, I know firsthand some of the kinds of feelings you are processing. I am praying for you and cannot wait to talk with you when you get home. It's a must.
Hugs ♥,
tammie
When I see these sweet faces and consider once again the plight of the truly impoverished, I am freshly outraged at the health and wealth "gospel" of the west. If that same 'give a dollar and you'll get ten' message can not be preached in the slums of India, then it is no gospel at all. When will we wake up and realize that? When will we send those dollars to the people who need them instead of hoping for a monetary return for our 'investment'.
Sorry for the soapbox.
I'm just loving your perspective, Melissa. Keep it coming..I hope to see if you got to visit Annavaram where our child Palivela lives!
Melissa - thanks for sharing your journey with us from afar. The tears sting my eyes as read your posts. These children have to deal with things they shouldn't have to and they are just a representation of children around the world with that reality.
You are putting feet to you faith. You are definitely walking in the spirit of the book of James by showing your faith BY your works.
Be blessed.
Oh my gosh, she is just precious. I would have put her in my suitcase in a heartbeat, kidnapping charges be darned!
Surely these children are truly blessed by God, whose grace and compassion are never-ending. Surely God has a special place in His gigantic heart for them.
Thank you so much for sharing all of this with us. What a blessing you are to them as well.
Hi Melissa!
I always enjoy reading the insights you come upon. The pictures are so wonderful!!
I'm reading a book called, "Forgotten Among The Lilies" Learning to Love Beyond Our Fears by Ronald Rolheiser. His writing collects thoughts that make me think of our need to feel significant and these poor people need to feel significant but need just the necessary things in life that I take for granite. Lessons to learn. Here is a quote from the book:
"Given our infinite depth and our infinite hungers, in this life we will always be on fire. The fire inside us will never be extinguished by attaining the right experience – the right partner in love, the right job, the right city, the right friends, the right recognition. Our choice is not between restlessness and restfulness, but between two kinds of restlessness, between two kinds of fire – "pyre and pyre." A great book.
Look forward to hearing more of your journeys there!
Allison
Melissa, I must confess that until your trip and blogs, I had never heard of Compassion International. I went to their website and started viewing the children that need sponsors. I am leaning toward a 13 year old girl with the same birthday as mine. She has Asthma, which I have had in my lifetime. She is smart and beautiful. I may never be able to travel to another country but I can try and make a difference in one child's life. Thank you for making me aware of this need and organization. I admire your dedication and strength to do what you are doing. 1Corinthians 15:58 and Hebrews 6:10
You've got to read Ron Sider's Rich Christians in an Age of Hunger. He spends a long time explaining the theology of God's special concern for the poor.
You said before you left that you weren't an activist. Reading that post...You are becoming one. YAY for you!
-from a fellow activist and wannabe missionary :)
I can't find the right words. For once I am speechless as well.
Mother Teresa said, "Love, to be real, must cost, it must hurt, it must empty us of self."
She knew what you are feeling there...the love and the pain..and the emptying of self.
Every American will have to answer for what they have been given and what they have done with it, I'm afraid.
We cry poor when we can't afford a new outfit, shoes or handbag.
I want to slap my ownself hard and make myself go face down before a HOLY GOD who has always been on the side of the oppressed.
Father forgive us for our selfish, spoiled natures and let us be poured out for you.
I love you, Melissa...you are my kind of girl.
Father protect her and grant her wisdom, insight and more love through this time so she can teach us more fully.
In the name of The Father, The Son and The Holy Ghost
Amen
Thank you, Melissa.
Melissa, I'm still pondering your words and quotes. I was struck that we are totally dependant on God-all of us. Last summer we had made the decision to sposnsor a 3rd
child. Several months ago my husband was laid off. Our prayer at the onset was to be able to keep up with our tithes and giving commintments. God has been God and we are testifying to His provision in enabling us to give. We've had to make sacrifices and it's alittle scary at times but the months come and go and we are paying our bills and are still able to give. I've been doing the Esther study and the last time I wrote my girls I told them about Esther and I told them that I believe God will use them to help their people. I really believe that for them. To whom much is given much is required, I take that very seriously. Praying for you to get some sleep tonight and for continued safety for the team and for all the children to be blessed by God's love coming through you all. In Jesus' Love Kathy Knoblock
Melissa ~ It does take a long time to process everything because it is such a huge culture shock. I spent 2 months teaching in India 2 summers ago and it's taken me about that long to process everything. I am so excited for your opportunity to be over there and love on them! Keep sharing your stories! :)
My Darling, I just came into the tiny town close to our ranch to that familiar restaurant that offers free wifi with a hefty meal. I just read your post and it's everything I can do not to wail out loud. I am so moved. I am proud of you for going to the extreme personal discomfort of looking in the face of such suffering. Never will your heart beat in closer cadence to Christ's. Isaiah 58 has jumped off the page and into dry bones, young lady. God is glorified.
Amanda, Dad, and I can hardly wait for you to get back and tell us every detail. We are thinking of you and praying for you constantly and keeping a close eye on Colin. Rest assured, we love him so much.
Go do that thing, Child. We are with you in spirit. And, as for you, Amanda Jones, you keep doing what God has called YOU to do right there in Houston, Texas. You girls amaze me.
I once had an 8 year old girl from India named Jonvee in my 3rd grade class. She moved here not knowing a lick of English, and oh what a joy she was. My 3rd grade girls got the biggest kick out of teaching her American games and letting Jonvee teach them Indian games. When she moved to Tennessee, we were heartbroken.
Your posts yesterday and today inspired me to sponsor a child from India, only when I went to find a child and was all set on an Indian girl, I felt the Holy Spirit speak to me to choose a child who has been waiting the longest for a sponsor.
Now I feel like an expectant mother and have to wait 2 weeks to find out if it's a boy or girl, how old, and from where! I can hardly stand it! I am so excited.
Thank you for sharing your experience in India with us.
In my life, it was when I was spiritually poor, spiritually totally bankrupt, that I came to know Jesus by crying out to God to please, please let me know His Son.
I am reading and re-reading your post, Melissa, and I will study Isaiah 58 as well. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and your thoughts. This blog means a lot to me, too!
Love,
Fran
Gulf Shores, AL
Melissa,
I think lots of us will be sponsoring a child in India after what you've told us.
Regarding the poor: Throughout history and all through the bible there have been poor people, God created it that way and we will always have them. I believe the poor exist so the "haves" in this world can can show Christs love to them - both parties benefit. Without the poor a huge part of God's heart is missing. This is why our new administration in Washington which wants to level the playing field will never succeed - God will not let poverty be wiped out. It is through the poor, serving them, giving of ourselves that we expose the true meaning of Christianity. What other explanation can we give except the power of Christ in us compels us to serve and give to the needy of this world even if we don't know them.
Melissa - Copy that on the Jack Bauer briefing. :) WOW! You've done GREAT!
Isaiah 58:11 has long been a favorite verse of mine, in fact it is the header for my blog. The meaning in context with the full chapter is awesome. Thank you for the prompt to study the passage.
Subrata's story made me weep - for a little boy to even have an awareness of his mother's burden - slays me. I saw a little boy kicking his mother in the store the other day - the antithesis of Subrata's heart - God help him.
In thinking through your masterful thoughts on poverty, for some reason I kept coming back to the passage from Revelation 3 - the Laodecian lukewarm church - chastised because they were "rich and in need of nothing" and because they were lukewarm would be spewed out of God's mouth. Our lukewarmness is an offense.
May God bless those two high school girls - that greatly encouraged me with the excess that abounds in our culture.
I love you Melissa, and I'm praying for all of y'all. I'm so thankful to be a Compassion sponsor!
Georgia Jan
2 Corinthians 8:9
For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, yet for your sakes He became poor, that you through His poverty might become rich.
Like everyone else has said, thank you so much for sharing this experience with us. Such an incredible look into a world most of us will never see or experience, and I'm glad to be getting a glimpse of it through your journey so that my heart may be moved toward those people and others in poverty.
This is making me plan to keep in better contact with my compassion child I've sponsored for a few years.
Thanks for sharing your heart and my prayers are with you!
Anonymous--
There was no poverty in Eden. God did not create it that way. It is a result of the Fall and our attempt to hoard resources.
I find it striking that "Give us this day our daily bread" comes right after "on earth as it is in heaven" in the Lord's Prayer. Having enough--not loads more than you need, but enough--is a part of the shalom of God that Isaiah 58 speaks to and that Jesus reiterates in the Lord's Prayer.
PS: STEVE ROCKS!! Come back anytime, man!!! We need that kind of perspective sometimes in Siestaville! :)
Thank you sister!!
Please know I have been diligently praying for you. How comfortable we get in our own little worlds - we will be sponsoring a child (or two). I thought it would be great to have a foster child that I mentor pick them out, so we could both send the child letters. God bless you for your ministry. You are loved.
Wooooow
what a post!
thanks Melissa
I am so greatful for your post and so appreciate the effort you are making to write them. I am headed to Kenya in December and I am being encouraged by you to "fear not". I know it will be hard and the the trip long but so worth it.
My thoughts on the "poor"....not that I have much worth saying are this. I hope I can make my writing clear from my heart.
It seems to me that God has blessed so many with poverty. I know that bitterness can take over some in this situation but for the most part I don't find that to be true. What I do find is that they already have such a deep understanding of their need!! They just need for someone to help them put God's face to it. They know they need Him but they don't know His name. It's kind of like "If I knew the question to ask I would ask it". They come to salvation much easier than we with all of our pride. We don't want to acknowledge any weaknesses at all. They readily admit to weakness as it is so evident to the world so they have no problem admitting to further spiritual weakness.
We need to feed the hungry and clothe the naked but to me this is just the avenue God uses to bring them to Himself. And He lets those of us, for whatever His reasons are, carry the message to them. I am amazed at what lengths God will go to, to bring us to a saving knowledge of Jesus.
Ok..I was typing really fast probably did not explain that right but I hope you get the meaning.
Melissa,
This post resonated with me! It is something that God has been teaching me lately in what seems to be repetitive circumstances!
In America, we are so often consumed with the things that, frankly, just don't matter. God's command for us is to love the poor, and give everything we have to them. And I think you are right- The poor are blessed and honored because they truly love Him! We are so blinded by our "idols" that we don't love Him the way we should. When you live in poverty, you have utter dependence and devotion to Him alone. Oh, how I wish we'd learn from them!
I love the quote that you shared, and will be meditating on Isaiah 58 over the next few days. Thank you for your honesty, your genuity, your perseverance to look straight into poverty and see what we can do to help. Count us in!
We recently went through The Truth Project study by Dr. Del Tacket (it is phenominal by the way!), and he taught about the poor and that taking care of them is our responsiblity. In our small group we asked about the verse that says we will always have the poor with us. Why? I think you just answered it for me. Just like God puts His creation in nature as a reminder, He reminds us of our need through the needy among us. Thanks for taking us along on such an amazing trip, Melissa!
Wow - Melissa you inspire us all. I have to tell you how impressed I am with your writing ability. You are so eliquent with your words. I'm sure you're mom is so proud. We love you all & pray for you daily.
I mistakenly thought my mission trip to Sri Lanka several years ago was for me and our team to somehow bring these "poor" people some Light and Hope. I put poor in quotes b/c I arrogantly felt pity for them before I left. Even before the half-way mark during the trip, I was humbled by how rich they were by the things they haven't experienced: so much SELF. Somehow they're richer than we are b/c they are so far from self-absorbed and I think luxury sometimes makes you that way. I am so thankful to God that I am an American, but my opinion of mission trips is that God takes your little head and your little eyes and says, you think you have problems, here-let's take a little trip across the world. And it changed me forever. They enriched me, they grew my gratefulness, they increased my faith in the God we share; and we let them know by being there that God knows them by name and has not forgotten them.
It's like God knows their plight in life and he says for this you suffer, you shall also be rewarded. I will meet your every need: and He sends people on mission trips, for one example, to do just that.
More tears. I'm going to have to bring a Kleenex box into the computer room if this keeps up! :) These posts are much needed. Thank you for taking the time to let us "come along" on your journey.
Oh how this post brought me to tears! A 4 yr. old child all alone everyday? A brother sleeping on hard cement? Oh how it breaks my heart and how I praise God that He sees their need and has brought you all there.
Thank you so much for the updates and pictures of those precious childen!
Thanks Melissa for the pictures and the update I am going to try
and figure it into my budget to sponsor a child. Espically when I saw you sitting on the steps with that little boy. I just think that this is going to be a life changing experience for you. I am very glad that you got to go. Love You Melissa Thank You For Sharing Your Trip With Us Seista and taking time out of your busyness to keep us updated.
Praying For You
Love Your Seista In Albuquerque NM
carol
Oh man, Melissa....you have "stirred the pot" in all who read your posts. It's absolutely amazing what you can experience in a mere 24 hour period being in a culture so contrary to ours, at so many levels, head, heart, and mind. Your sense of the Spirit in these children is tender, just like Jesus sees them. I saw it in Costa Rica two weeks ago. We have been so brainwashed in the US to believe the lie that we "need" so much, I want to just puke....what I am forced to see is my own depravity, shallowness and lack, when faced with people who have nothing, yet everything, because they truly see God as their provider for all their needs. bless you the rest of the time.Pam in San Diego....
Melissa,
We love you too and thank you so much for sharing yourself and your experience. I love that you can preach God's love for the poor and want to feel "Jack Bauerish" all in the same post.
Thank you for bringing me, who is sitting in my air conditioned home...with my "house for my car" (as one immigrant child put it)...watching my TV...and typing on my laptop, a reminder of those who are truly poor. Those who are really in need.
My prayers are with you for continued strength and health and for the entire team.
Keep bringing it siesta we need to hear it.
Me again!
I guess God knew I couldn't wait two weeks after all.
IT's A BOY!
Sampson from India!!!!! 7 years old and handsome as all get out.
Thank you, Melissa.
Reading your posts is a blessing, not only for us, but for untold numbers of children who will no doubt become sponsored children.
My hometown church has the most beautiful stained-glass windows, and the BIG one behind the choir loft has the passage from Proverbs 19:17, "He who has pity upon the poor lendeth unto the Lord." When I was growing up, I always wondered why the church planners in the 1890s chose such a "random" verse. Now that I'm a little (ahem) older, It's perfectly clear that I was being reminded, ever so subtly, to have compassion.
"What is, in your opinion, at the bottom of His love for the poor?"
I read somewhere that "we can't receive the kingdom from Jesus until our hands are not clutching onto worldly possessions." Maybe He loves poor people more than the rich or maybe He knows what it will take for an individual to come to Him and for some they may not be able to "let-go" of worldly possessions long enough to get hold of Him??? I dont know!! Another thought is that we need the poor more than they need us to show us how to depend on Him - but you mentioned that I think. You are just so good with words and your heart is spilling out onto the page and we LOVE it. I was hoping to hear from you tonight but had no way of knowing how much I would be blessed. Also how much I would be convicted by your words. My husband are praying about sponsoring a child or two. Pray with us as time allows! I have already been looking and I want them all - how do you choose?? Anyway, love you girl and we are praying for you. It seems like God has opened your eyes WIDE!! Ours too and thanks for posting and letting us in on what HE is doing - thanks so much for being real and open. Love in AL, Vicki
Tonight after work I stopped by the grocery store to pick up some things for dinner, and while walking past the bakery my eyes were shocked when they landed on a big display of naan bread. I LOOOVE naan, and of course it made me think of you in India. After grabbing a pack, I started thinking about how much I love visiting other countries~ that the very thought of submersing myself into an entirely different culture...food, art, architecture, ways of life...it's bigger than any adrenaline rush or drug-induced high for me (somehow I think I missed my calling to be a missionary..but I digress). It made me wonder what the food was like where you were, and then my thoughts went to the children who sang songs for you and it just brought tears to my eyes all over again.
After getting dinner in the oven, I decided to take a quick swim in our pool (since our Central Florida weather has been absolutely incredible these past few weeks), and once again, my mind came back to you in India. I thought about all of the children there and how much they would love a pool like the one I have, especially on one of those 120 degree weather days. I just became overwhelmed with thoughts of, Why me, God? Why was I so fortunate to be born in America, during a time when someone could be on the complete opposite side of the world on a spiritual journey, and have the capability of sharing their experience with me on a daily basis via this thing called the internet? WHY WHY WHY??!! The thought was completely overwhelming. And I still don't know the answer.
The irony was not lost on me, however, that my daily calendar at work today had a quote (sorry I can't remember the author), that was something along the lines of: the easiest way for man to forget how blessed he is, is to receive his blessings so often enough that he forgets they are even blessings. Your quote from Richard Bauckham seems to find hand-in-hand with that little devotion. It also reminded me of a joke that got emailed to me the other day..about a handful of scientists who told God they wanted to challenge Him by making their own human, and He of course accepts, but just before the scientist reaches down to pick up a handful of dirt, God strikes him with a bolt of lightening and says, "Get your own dirt."
Much of our success, I think, comes from us giving God credit where it's due. Some of the happiest people on earth are also the poorest. They aren't consumed with all of the distractions that we are. And as crazy as it sounds, sometimes I actually feel envious of people who have much simpler lives. They are oftentimes the most compassionate people, too. Willing to give the shirt off their own back, even though that may be their last or only possession. It definitely puts everything in perspective.
I am SOOOO SOOOO SOOOO thankful that God and Compassion International led you to India this week. I'm SOOO blessed to read your updates and see the pictures of those who are meeting along the way. The last picture of Susmita was absolutely...I don't even have a word grand enough to explain it. You were right. It was beyond any beautiful description that words could express. THANK YOU! Be blessed, Melissa!!!!
Oh, my heart...little Latangi, a 4 year old who takes care of herself alone at home while her mother works! Praise God I know someone has already had their heart won over for her. So thankful you and the Compassion team are sharing the reality and the need. Aren't they beautiful children? Trusting as a result of your trip and all the bloggers that are being reached that thousands of children will be given the gift of hope through Compassion and the giving hearts of new sponsors. My prayers are with you all daily,and for God's gift of compassion on willing hearts and also I'm praying for a break in the awful heat wave to make the trip more manageable for all. Thank you so much for paying the price to share the truth and sharing the riveting pic's of the beautiful Indian children. This is the thought that comes to me concerning the poor children, "Tis the gift to be simple, t'is the gift to be free...." Just imagine how free the child feels who has the priviledge of being in a church sponsored school because of Compassion. Free to live, free to learn, free to hope and free to be. I had no idea that tiny little ones would be left alone at home while the others work.
I went to India in 2006 and had the chance to go all over and visit the slums of India...life changing is all I can say. I went back to my Bible and found a few places that I was reading while there and beside I just wrote "India"..may you be encouraged to read this as much as I did after seeing all that I saw: Ps. 113:7-8; Ps. 155:4-8. Lifting you guys up...you will never be the same!
Hubby and I just recently had the loss, or perhaps a postponement, of a lifelong dream for both of us, and we had been considering sponsoring a child. Your post sent us over the edge - in a good way, of course - and we began sponsoring a precious boy tonight.
Thank you for your own compassion and your action. Our prayers are with you on this trip - may the Lord move mightily for all involved.
Awesome! thank you so much for sharing and for the pictures, they really show the beauty of these precious children. :)
I am really interested in sponsoring a child and especially now after hearing your account and seeing the pics. Thank you!
My hubby and I have been married 13 years and cannot have children, or so they think. I haven't given up hope! :) Thank you for showing me another way that I can love children and fill that empty hole that is there.
On a second note I have to share how God just this wknd in STL showed me a display of the poor and I can't help thinking about it.
My husband and I went to a ball game and when it was over I saw 3 homeless people with signs and the first one said "God bless you" on it. I cannot forget that man or the others. The last time I was in Dallas I had the same thing happen. My heart just goes out to them and all that I know is to PRAY for them. I know God loves them and even though they are poor now I pray that He would make them rich in HIM! May God be with the poor children of this world an the homeless who are standing there waiting.
Thanks Melissa for your post and may God continue to protect you and show you His children. :) Praying for you all!
Blessings,
Lori in SW MO
Melissa-
I am no longer going to let myself read these posts at work, because I just become a puddle. Seriously! The way you paint the picture for what is going on over there is just priceless.
So much of me wishes I was there to experience it, too. But, I am thankful for y'alls posts. These precious faces have stolen my heart and I have been looking at the compassion site all day trying to find a child to sponsor and I just can't come to a conclusion on one. I think now I will just have them choose one for me!
I am praying for y'all as well as myself that the Lord would make me a more compassionate and gracious person.
Much love to you and everyone over there.
Loved the visual of your taking a sip from a fire hydrant. I can imagine what an overwhelming experience you all are experiencing. How can you NOT want to bring them all back here?
Another lesson...Can we trust God to complete the mission He has called you on?
Yes. It takes great FAITH to turn your back and walk away from such HUGE NEED. Your heart will melt. But God is blessing this. I can see His HAND all over this. I even see His Eyes in the pictures of the children...and His Compassion in the picture of their little, simple shoes.
Breathe in deeply, precious jewel in God's crown. Breathe in deeply and let His Holy Spirit empower you to serve Him in this call. Trust Him with all your emptiness. He will fill you.
How can we as women-of-faith not be changed by the need we see through your eyes, Melissa?
Oh, how we need this pull on our heartstrings!
Father, we hear You calling us to be Agents of Change. We copy that. Make us all ambassadors of Christ. In Jesus Name. Amen.
Thank you.
What an amazing description of trying to take a drink from a hydrant...
This post was so beautiful and convicting...I read it many times. And I know I'll read it again... it just gave me goose bumps.
You're in my prayers.
Blessings,
Michelle in Vermont
First just let me say that I chuckled when reading your Mom's comment -- as I think she called you Amanda in the wrap up... which for some reason just hit my funny bone, as it is obvious how much she adores you two -- and it is so comforting to know that all Mothers on the planet are required to invert the names of their children. Even when praying blessing over them! (God totally translates however)
That said - powerful blog Melissa. Praying for you during this time. And your ponderings stir in my so many memories of my own time spent overseas. Always amazes me, that no matter where I go on the planet, in the presence of vastly different customs and circumstances - looking in the eyes of people - I am soo deeply struck by the love of God for us. How deeply we can become anesthetized and hardened in our "western" day to day grind - and how stepping outside of that, even for a short period of time, if we are open, shakes us to the core, and reminds us of the big God that we serve - who is soo much bigger and wilder than we can imagine. And who has a heart for the poor, the lonely, the lost -- and that there is not one soul, in any corner of this planet - that he does not know, love, see, and move heaven and earth to speak to... Amazes me...
Breathe knowing that sometimes it is the "short term" experiences, that create the life long changes. The impact that you will have as a result of this trip - for the Kingdom, is not confined to the duration of this trip. But rather the narrative the King is writing in you, that will be with you forever.
I was so moved by reading your blog and seeing the pictures that I just now signed up to sponser a child...her name is Maria from Bolivia and she is 5 years old...I'm excited to see how she will now flourish and am thankful to have this oppurtunity to give.
Dear Melissa,
Your post both moves me to tears and humbles me beyond words as I think of how we live in the wealthiest country in the world. I too have a four year old little girl and your pic of the 4 year old you picked out for Amanda, moved me so much. I want to pick out a four year old who is the same age as my daughter Lily Kate so that she can identify and pray for her as we make this a family project. Thank you for allowing God to use you to inspire us to give to God's children. May you be blessed and encouraged.
An Atlanta girl too,
amy
As far as why God's love for the poor is so shameless, Melissa, I think you nailed it. Jesus said he came to the sick, not the healthy. (Mark 2:17) The poor are closer to the truth of the matter, which is that we are all sick without Jesus. But in America, we have all kinds of distractions to ease our sin-sickness and make us believe we aren't perishing.
I also have to tell you that I'm doing the Daniel Bible study right now with a bunch of women from our MOPS group, and last week, we covered the story of Nebuchadnezzar (can I admit that I'm proud that I no longer have to look up the correct spelling for his name?) losing his mind. I was struck by the definition of the word "chanan" which translates "showing mercy" in English. The most peculiar concept that is contained within that word is "to complain." But that's EXACTLY what you and the rest of the Compassion Bloggers team is doing this week. You're complaining to us comfortable, self-absorbed Americans about what the rest of the world lives with (or without).
You are showing mercy. Keep it up.
I don't know quite how to say what I am thinking. My mind wants to make distinctions between the haves and have-nots, but I'm not sure that's God's way. I look at these children and compare them to my own children and even to myself, sitting here in western comfort and plenty. The differences move me to pity and guilt and maybe even action, but do they move me to the mind of Christ? Does Christ want us to see ourselves as different from them or the same as them? Does love spring from separation or unity? Which is more powerful, benevolent alienation or soul-deep identification? Am I "over them" (or "under them") or "one of them?" The heart of the incarnation is not benevolence but identification. I think it matters, but I'm not totally sure how. Does that make any sense at all?? Am I out in left field???
Thank you so much for sharing with us. May all those who have never sponsored a child be inspired by this. It is a wonderful blessing.
Praying for you, siesta! Love, Lori
I am grateful that God chose you to go to India (and He knows what He's doing)as I feel so blessed to hear about God through you and these beautiful, Indian people. Godspeed and continued travelling mercies to you!
I think you are absolutely right. We have no idea really, what it means to be in need. And to suffer for our faith, means we were chastized at work for talking about Jesus.
I so appreciate you sharing the hard stuff with us. As Americans, we are self-sufficient, wealthy, credit-card-carrying, jaded, and dis-interested people, who need to not just know what the poor live like, but what will our response be.
Thank-you again.
Melissa - Thanks for sharing your experience with us. Isn't it incredulous that your heart can feel such intense pain and amazing JOY at the very same moment?!?
God has been working overtime on my heart lately in regard to His heart for the poor and our responsibility to them. (If you don't already have them, be sure to check out: The Poverty & Justice Bible, Red Letters & Crazy Love.)
Sweet blessings on your life changing journey!
Amy in OR
I told you India would rock your socks! Amen to everything you said. The passage in Isaiah has been one spoken over me and in turn my husband. The poor in some ways are closer to the heart of God because they are not afraid to be in need. We hate to be needy, and we are so desperately needy. There is no pretension if you are poor, no posing. I love your pictures and the children's shoes could make it's own poster. More children, more names, more please! Keep at this, He has a plan. He's using you, He will use you. After all, that's what we want is it not? I think it is amazing that The LORD of the Universe invites us to partner with Him to do His work, for our benefit and for His Glory. He so condescends to stoop to us, how could we not help others in return? This is a true fast. I love you for being honest.
Lisa in Kirkland, WA
My in-laws several years ago did a misson trip to Brazil. They invited one of their guides back to the states. The guide came. He was from an affluent family there in Brazil. His father was a bank president and they had two homes. Yet this young man could not believe how wealthy we were because we could drink the water out of the facuet. Hard to imagine that something that I take for granted would be a measure of wealth in another country. Makes you realize just how truely blessed we are here in the good ole US of A
Praying for you Melissa, thank God that you were willing to set aside you comfort level and go where God called you to go.
Sallye
Melissa,
I have sat in many church services and seen numerous videos brought by missionaries from all over the world. I have never been affected in the way that your posts nor picture have affected me.It is difficult to sit here in my home and look at all I have without a hit on my conscience. Thank you for making it real.
Kels
Melissa, that last picture--with the "Little Women" gathered around you is EXACTLY the way I picture the multitudes used to gather around Jesus to hear Him teach...what a picture!
Melissa,
That was a powerful Word you brought us. We signed up to sponsor a child tonight. We requested one who had been waiting the longest and are praying God will pick.
Don't you just love the way God can make us family through the sharing? Melissa, thanks so much. God has gifted you with INCREDIBLE writing skills that truly reflect your thoughts and experiences, and HIS love and kindness...thank you.
Am praying for God to multiply your lessons many times over, and bless you abundantly
Great post-- precious, precious children. Their faces...sigh....
Mary, mom to many
DR Compassion blogger
Melissa, your gift of words is bringing this trip alive to me. I'm praying for you and the team hourly, crying with each post read and believing that lives will be changed because of the sponsors that are being cultivated. Bless you for sharing your heart with us.
God Bless you guys for all you do.
We have sponsored children from India for about 8 years. The first child's father made her quit the sponsorship - being Hindu, I don't think he "appreciated" the Christian teaching. Now, we sponsor a little girl whose father passed away during our sponsorship. Is hard to imagine the pain she went through - am so glad she had the Compassion center to turn to. Melissa: she is in the Vallioor (Valliyur is another spelling) Dev. Center and she goes by "K.Sumathi." Please tell her we love her if you see her!
James 1:27 says, "External religious worship (religion as it is expressed in outward acts}that is pure and unblemished in the sight of God the Father is this: to visit and help and care for the orphans and widows in their affliction and need, and to keep oneself unspotted and uncontaminated from the world".
This is one of my favorite scriptures and as one who has been richly blessed with the opportunity to go on a few missions trips, I believe that every Christian MUST live this scripture out in their lives. It doesn't mean we will all be sent, but in our everyday living we must seek God to show us the opportunities that are right in front of us! We will all give an account to our precious Father and as I read Matthew 25:35-46, I am reminded that as we serve others according to the Word, we serve Christ.
That is my favorite scripture. It is the last one my mom wrote out for me before she died after years and years of chronic illness. I've never thought about it in terms of her illness and now must go back and meditate on it again. In the meantime, I think I need to check on my finances and see what I can do for Compassion...God bless dear one, and know that we love you too.
Maryellen
Psalm 45:1 is all I can think when I read your post----your tongue is the pen of a ready writer---and it's all for your King and His children. You paint a beautiful story of a waiting God in India who is hovering over His chosen, holding them together, Col 1:17. HE delights in what HE is doing in India through YOU, your team and Compassion. Keep thinking about Josh 4:10 and about how God parted the waters of the Jordan River to arm them for battle --- hurry and take some stones and write on stones of hearts all that your beautiful God has done for you and leave it with them. And 40,000 were armed for battle----I don't know how many sponsors Compassion has but I see 40,000 people here armed and ready to help these kids. Just found out I have cancer and I have 9 doctors in one week's time, NINE----look at all the illness you see and they probably have such little to nothing help. Can someone tell me if we can give money "one time" or a few times or are they just looking for lifetime sponsors? Or one year sponsors? We can't commit for the long haul right now but could give for the short one. You are such a beautiful ambassador of His Love, His Grace, His Words.
Years ago, my husband and I watched and waited to see if our two week old son would recover from a life threatening disease. Sitting in the hospital day after day we quickly realized our hands were tied. There was nothing we could do in this situation. We prayed. Many others prayed. Our only hope was found in God.
The overwhelming sense of helplessness opened our eyes to our need for God. We could not look to the left or to the right for help. We could only look up as we fell to our knees in prayer.
Poverty most certainly must feel the same way by the overwhelming sense of helplessness.
I pray God would open our eyes to the needs all around us. May we be His hands and feet to help those in need.
Melissa,I am praying for you.
Looking forward to your next update.
I am so thankful we serve a compassionate Father.
In His grip,
Mary
Melissa,
I too am moved by the statement on poverty. Your post are very exciting to me in that my husband and I are in the process of change in ministry and are feeling very much like God is calling us into full-time missions. We are scheduled to spend two weeks in Honduras in June and I can hardly wait to get there! We have been before and cannot wait to see what God has done since our last visit. We will be working again at an orphanage where it is heartbreaking to think of the future of these kids, but it is also inspiring to see the joy they have in their heart regardless of the fact that they have nothing! My daughters, 16 and 12, will return and I cannot wait to see how God moves in their hearts too!
I anticipate hearing more of your story and I will be praying for you!
Blessings,
Chris
Thank you Melissa,for your willingness to allow God to use you in a mighty way. Thank you for your picture words along with the photographs. I am praying for you,the whole team and the children.
Love and Blessings, Debbie in Tennessee
Melissa: I have loved your past two blogs. My heart was moved by not only your writing but also the pictures that you enclosed. I would like to someday go on this journey myself. I have just signed up to sponsor a child. How I wish I could see her. God's richest blessings on these people, and thank you for sharing. Blessings, Julie
What a post Melissa. Thank you so much for your heartfelt thoughts and concerns. They always go to my core.....I pray Most Holy Father, make me worthy of this life. Thank you also for the pics...we so often get all tied up in our own "small" world.
Blessings,
Bible Bunny in NO MI
Isaiah 58 has been on my heart all year! I have been praying that my church here in Maryland would grab hold of this and that our church would become known for having Jesus' compassion!
If we will just carry out Isaiah 58:7 (Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter— when you see the naked, to clothe him, and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood?) souls will be saved and churches will be busting at the seams!
Unfortunately, my local church has built a new church "building" and I fear as a result, we have lost some of our compassion. God have mercy on us!
Melissa, I have never traveled to a third world country, but we have poverty right here in our own back yard as well. I work in a school office and some of our own students live in houses with dirt floors which they sleep on.
May God have mercy on us and may we get off of our comfy chairs, stop debating theological differences and get busy being the hands and feet of Jesus!
God bless you for your heart.
Thanks so MUCH for sharing your experiences and thoughts with us as you travel.
I am praying for you, those precious children in India, ompassion AND especially for you to be delivered from those nagging migraines! God delivered me from them and wants to do the same for you!
Love in Christ,
Phyllis (in Salisbury, MD)
Melissa...my heart is so broken but yet so hopeful.
Praying so hard for you and the entire team. Asking God to do what only He can do.
So much love,
Fran
Praying like mad for you Melissa! I remember my husband telling me about the poverty with tears in his eyes. I believe we have the poor with us so we can share God's love in a tangible way. We talk a lot about the love of God, but how often do we demonstrate that love? Also the poor represent how Jesus came to and left this world - without any material possessions.
Sending much love your way this day!
Melissa,
Your words speak only God truth, putting truth into perspective as your sight opens your heart to truth even more. You and the team have been in my prayers. God to use this time abundantly to his glory. There are many on this journey that have such a way to put pictures in our mind eye with words. Keep pricking our heart back home in the states using the words God is giving for us. Your journey is to affect us also for his glory through you words he gives.
Praying for all
Celie
I get excited about going to one of Beth's conferences but I think I am more excited about this trip that Melissa is making. I can't wait to get on this blog each day and read about it. It struck me hard today when I really thought about her being on the OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD and just a keyboard away form us. Wouldn't Paul have loved to be able to send his letters like this? :) May I suggest that someone keep track of how many children get a sponsor this week because God moved in the hearts of so many blessed woman through this blog. Melissa you are a blessed writer. You make us all feel like we are there with you. Well we are.....in prayer. Go forth in Christ name! We love you so much.
Claudia
Thank you for that beautiful post. Such beautiful children. Maybe God's love for the poor is related to his love of children. Children are so innocent and more in-tune to spirituality and God's presence. They are wide-eyed and wanting to believe. They need someone to protect them, love them, be a savior to them. Perhaps, the poor are that open as well to the need of God. Like the one author's comments you wrote about. God be with you on this journey and may you bring love to as many children as you can.
I was very moved by this post. I've wanted to sponor a child and not just send money to Compassion when we can. So many of my friends sponor, some even sponor a child for every child they have. Generous!
After reading yesterday, I was certain that I would approach my man after we sell our house and after our upcoming move to California this summer sometime. But through the night, I can only imagine the Lord brought these thoughts to mind: these kids need help NOW!!So this morning I approached my man and asked if, by faith, we could start sponsorships now in addition to our other giving areas and work it into the budget when we get our new salary. He said he would think about it. That is all I can ask. And now I'll pray that God moves our hearts together in this matter.
The Lord is surely moving His people to action. It is so evident to me in the responses to this post alone. And I thank you all, each member of the Compassion India team, for being willing vessels to show how deep the need and how great the impact serving the these children in the name of Jesus can have!
much love,
rachel
When God dreamed this world and called it into existence poverty, pain,bone-crushing sorrow and want was not a part of His plan. Maybe His compassion runs so deep for the needy because this was not what He wanted--for any of us. I have begun to pray that I will see all people with the eyes of compassion-with His eyes. It's amazing how my little, human, sin-exposed heart aches. How much more must His.
Thank you so much Melissa for sharing these pictures and your thoughts. What a priviledge to see some of what you see over there. i had no idea you could sponsor a child and send as many letters as you want to and even CLOTHES! I love that!!! I have long wanted to sponsor a child, but felt concerned that the ministries might not be legit -- i guess that is God's to handle! I will really look into this! I love the little box that the little girl keeps! I am brought to tears today for the love of Christ and here i go again! Oh how I love Him!!!
Please continue to keep us posted with more pictures!
Thank you so much!!!
Kimberly, Alabama
Melissa -
My heart is so humbled by the beauty of your message and the Glory that the Lord is providing us all in understanding how we can be a parent to His child so far away, but so near in the spirit. The last picture of you with all the children engaged while you are visiting with them - is beautiful beyond words. The look that the precious girls have in their eyes are a reflection of God's very presence!
May He provide you and the others the rest and peace and joy that you need as you continue to be on a Mission with Him in Kolkata.
Thank you for being available to His Kingdom to spread the Word to them and to us.
Love you!
Lea - Waxahachie, TX
Thank you Melissa for sharing your trip. Your words touch my heart. And I could bearly read without crying. I want to sponsor a child in India.
I feel so honored to serve a living God who loves us so much & has so much compassion for us.
What a darling little girl! Anyway, I know it's not as big as the children in India, but if anyone's interested in the full story as of now, on Jeremiah with his bee sting allergy you can read about it on my blog:
http://spaparazzo.blogspot.com/
How can I say much through my tears? A 4 year old staying home by herself? FOUR?! Whew. My mind can barely wrap itself around that one. My son is 3.5 - it'd be like leaving him home for the day. I cannot conceive of that.
I hope to be able to sponsor a child. I've sponsored through World Vision for years but never had the relationship like the one you spoke of (the little girl with the treasure box of gifts from her sponsor). I need to be better about contacting "my kids". Thank you for talking about that.
Blessings to you.
Laura
Pleasant Hill, CA
Melissa, you need to know that you are doing God's work by just going there and bringing this place and this organization to the attention of all of us. As a result of your testimony and God's leading, I've just become a sponsor of a precious little girl in India. I have never felt so blessed in my life to have the privilege of doing this, so I thank you that you've opened the door to allow that to happen. The Lord bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you.
Looking at these pictures does something to my heart. These sweet, beautiful faces, the little shoes! Goodness...
Praying for you!
stephanie
Melissa - thank you for going, thank you for sharing, thank you for making us aware and thank you for opening our eyes so that we can open our hearts. Praying for ya'll.
Dear Melissa:
I'm not as skilled at writing as you, so stick with me here, as I feel like God has shown me something about this (post) last night and this morning, and I didn't realize it until just now.
Okay, we are a movie family. We watch tons of movies and when we find a favorite one, we watch it over and over and then use sayings from it with each other. Kind of that insider family stuff that no one around you will know what you are talking about. (Hang on to this thought.)
I read your post yesterday and pondered your question. Then I pulled it up just a minute ago to ponder it again. What is so cool about God is that He taught me something last night before I went to bed and again this morning in my quiet time that I think ties into your question.
(I am going to use my NIV Study Bible for some of my comments.) In 2 Corinthians 8 Paul is encouraging the Corinthians to excel in the grace of giving. In verse 7 he tells them, "But just as you excel in everything - in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in your love for us - see that you also excel in this grace of giving."
Too often, stewardship of money is given a different status than other aspects of discipleship. Most believers would not want growth in faith, knowledge or love to stop at a certain level. Yet many decide a fixed percentage of their money to give and stay there for life. True discipleship includes growing in the mature use of all resources, so giving should expand as well. God can give us the desire and enable us to increase our capacity to give and we don't want to miss this opportunity for growth.
He goes on in verses 8-9, "I am not commanding you, but I want to test the sincerity of your love by comparing it with the earnestness of others. For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich."
There is no evidence that Jesus was any poorer than most first-century Palestinians; rather, Jesus became poor by giving up his rights as God and becoming human. In his incarnation, God voluntarily became man - the wholly human person, Jesus of Nazareth. Christ became "poor" when he became human, because he set aside so much. Yet by doing so, he made us "rich" because we received salvation and eternal life.
So then Paul goes on to tell them in verses 10-12, "So here is my advice about what is best for you in this matter: Last year you were the first not only to give but also to have the desire to do so. Now finish the work, so that your eager willingness to do it may be matched by your completion of it, according to your means. For if the willingness is there, the gift is acceptable according to what one has, not according to what he does not have.
(And this is where I tie in with what you were saying in your post.) Verses 13-15: "Our desire is not that others might be relieved while you are hard pressed, but that there might be equality. At the present time, your plenty will supply what they need, so that in turn, their plenty will supply what you need. Then there will be equality, as it is written: "He who gathered much did not have too much, and he who gathered little did not have to little.""
So why do I think God has this particular favor for the poor (my words)? Well, I think we are all poor in God's eyes. And we are all supposed to help each other out so we can all make it along. Just because I may have more money than one guy, there is another guy who has more money than me. But no one has the money God has, so doesn't that make us all "less than"??
If I read Paul's words correctly, I think God is telling me that if I help out someone else who is opporessed or in need, that I will receive the same help when my turn comes. Is this right?
So here is my movie quote from one of my favorite movies of all time, A Few Good Men with Tom Cruise, Demi Moore and Jack Nicholson. Dawson and Downey are marines who have just been dishonorably discharged from the Marines. In a desperate search for answers, Downey asks Dawson over and over, "What did we do wrong? We did nothing wrong!" And Dawson replies, "Yes we did (do something wrong). We were supposed to fight for people who couldn't fight for themselves. We were supposed to fight for Willie."
All I have to say AMEN, AMEN, AMEN to your very wise words concerning the poor! I am SO SO SO glad that our GOD loves them with shameless love and that His love is immeasurable, unceasing, and unconditional and BETTER THAN LIFE! And prasie Him that He has NO partiality!!
Thankyou SO MUCH for clearing up the fact that even the not so well off here in the U.S. are still extremley rich compared to the rest of the poverty stricken world!It is sooooooo true. And that poverty stricken world is a huge one. And unfortunatley A LOT of people turn their backs on it. But PRAISE GOD He has sent some of His faithful servants with the amazing and unspeakable previlige and honor to be HIS hands and feet.
I know that those kids you are with right now have stories we could not even imagine! I am soooo gald you are with them right now Melissa! I know that thery are happy about it!!
One of the most profound things for me that your amazing mom has ever said, was that, WE ARE WHO GOD SAYS WE ARE. I pray that those little guys know that they are exactly who GOD says they are and that they are NOTHING LESS. I am still working on that one-DAILY.
Praying for you!!
After coming in to work today and rereading the quote I mentioned before, I decided to post it here since my version was completely watered down :)
"It is too generally true that all that is required to make men unmindful what they owe to God for any blessing, is that they should receive that blessing often enough, and regularly enough." - Bishop Whately
wow I seriously need to head on over and sponsor another kid!!! It is so good to hear from someone who is actually there. Praying. This post rocked me.
I'm glad that the Lord made tech like this...this post is eye-opening. I can only imagine what it is like to live without like that. The material poor do tend to be the poorest in spirit, therefore the most aware of their utter dependence on God to provide for them to just live. They know Who their real security is. When I was in MT on mission trip, the poorest out there were the biggest prayer warriors. They knew God was their only hope. The chronically ill know this too, because they are facing life and death as well. Anything that traumatic. I want to be able to give more to the poor and to encourage those who desperately need encouragement, this is extremely motivating!
katiegfromtennessee
Beautifully written. And thank you for bringing some of what you are experiencing to those of us here at home. It's humbling. And troubling. And convicting. And beautiful. All at once.th
again. a gloriously beautiful post that points to the heart of God's love for human kind. Oh, how He loves us! To only catch a glimpse!
I am so enjoying your words as you share just a touch of what God is showing you. Thank you!
I am hugging my Compassion kids even more tightly in prayer as I read your inspirational posts.
-Darlene
Melissa, For years my family sponsored a boy from India. We did love Amalraj. We sponsored him from childhood until he became a man and left the program. He would write letters always beginning with, "Dear Mother Mrs. Jackie..." It was so precious. I now have two children that I sponsor. One with compassion in Ethiopia and one with another organization in Uganda. As you questioned about why it is that God has such a heart for the poor...my thought is that when a person is poor they have NOTHING. No material thing to put their hope in. They are completely needy and they know it. And then, b/c of His heart He calls us to give our hearts to them. To reach out and make hope a reality in their lives. To give to them so that they might have a chance to live. To allow His mercy and compassion to flow through us is to care for the poor. It is a remarkable thing that He calls us to...right now my two little adopted babies are sleeping in their beds b/c God chose them for Himself and chose us to parent them. Adoption has made a huge impact on our entire family...bringing the poor home as our own has been lifechanging. I know not everyone is called to adopt, but I do know that everyone is called to care and then to act accordingly. Thank you for sharing your experiences is such a "readable" way. You stories touch my heart and remind me of my sponsored boy all those years ago. Keep 'em coming and God bless and keep you.
Praying for you precious girl. Your heart has spilled over to everyone reading your posts, bless you Melissa. Thank you Lord for this opportunity you have given Melissa to travel to India and for allowing us to see with your eyes through her, your people there with compassion and mercy. May every one of those precious children become sponsored. In Jesus's Name. Amen
OK so it was Rinky Roy's treasure box that God used in my family. I was showing my teenage girls your blog, and Angie's too, and we were reading about the children you're ministering to, and when they saw that box where Rinky Roy keeps the treasures her sponsor sends they knew God was calling them to use some of their babysitting money to sponsor a child. They chose Victor, so if you see him please let him know that three teenage girls in Lancaster, PA think he's pretty cute and are praying for him! My husband and I will also sponsor a child but will allow Compassion to assign us the one God has already chosen. God bless you for being over there and being the hands and feet of Christ to these precious people.
Subrata has broken my heart. Thank you for sharing the pictures with your words.
I just want to tell you this is the first time I have gotten to read these posts. Oh you don't even know how God is using your stories. I cannot wait to hear someday. I will just tell you mine. I HATE apathy in my heart. It is there. I have been praying for God to break me. Well, He did. Thank you for posting your journey and the needs. Oh how I cannot wait to see all the things that God does with this. He is so good.
Much love,
Angela
Oh,I am so excited. Bless you and everyone with you on this much needed mission trip. Thank you for sharing many of the details with us. It helps us to be a part of it. After going to the Compassion site and viewing those beautiful children, I kept viewing until God showed me Thillai Muthu. He is 6 years old and his birthday is the same day as mine. I am so excited and cannot wait to begin our journey together. Thank you so much for allowing me to be introduced to this wonderful, beautiful child of God.
Blessings,
Nancy - Stockbridge, GA
So eloquently put! I had the chance to visit a church plant in Mexico on my first mission trip as a very new Christian, and it was one of the most life-changing experiences I've ever had. The beautiful poorest-of-the-poor people that we met were joyful, humble and full of love and faith, and they changed my understanding of the world, the Lord and myself in some crazy ways. Your words transported me back to that time, and those amazing memories!
Okay she is Absolutely precious. I want to hug and hold EACH one of them!
Groovewoman
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