An Off Week
I don't want to sound like Queen Compalainy from the Hawhiney Islands, but this week is not one I'd like to do over! I know lots of us are leading Bible studies or ministering in tons of other ways, so I'm thinking there's a good chance that a few of my siestas have also had an "off week" where serving the Lord is concerned.
On Wednesday night I hosted a shindig at my house to welcome our college girls back from their long winter break. I went to Central Market and bought all kinds of goodies to snack on - California rolls, chips and salsa and guacamole, and chocolate chip cookie dough. I know, it was a very weird assortment of food. I put The Tod to bed, rearranged our furniture to make room for a crowd, and waited for knocks on the door. Well, I got two knocks on the door. Thankfully, that was a total of four girls. But still. I normally have about fourteen on a Bible study night and I was expecting a comparable amount. (I guess it's a good problem to have that your college girls would rather study the Word than hang out!) Do y'all have any idea how much sushi is in my fridge? And that's not the kind of thing I really want to eat the next day. *Grin*
Today I drove out to Fort Worth to meet a new friend from church for lunch. This friend is in the area temporarily while a loved one is receiving treatment at a local hospital. Well, of all things, I drove out to the wrong medical center. I was supposed to have been in Dallas! Thirty minutes away! How in the world had I turned that around in my mind? We ended up having to reschedule.
Then, if that wasn't enough, I went to meet my husband for a spontaneous lunch at The Black Eyed Pea - comfort food at its best. And I needed some comfort. I'll spare you the details, but a toilet exploded water all over me. The bottom of my jeans are still wet. Please, someone put me to bed and let's call it a day!
My mom shared this little tidbit with me and it looks like I might not need to go straight to bed afterall.
One thing is for certain: if we’re looking for a position with automatic and instant affirmation, we might not want to go into ministry. God always blesses but He often applies the Law of Sowing and Reaping and sometimes it takes a mighty long time for that plant to show.
Well, amen, Mama!
"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers." (Galatians 6:9-10)
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posted by Amanda @ 2:10 PM
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Dear Little Amanda,
I know just what you mean! I just finished blogging on my website and the picture I used was of Peter Rabbit's Mum putting him to bed with chamomile tea. I love Beatrix Potter and that was the most comforting thing I could think of.
No, I didn't suffer hardship this week...but for me it was just one of those tough ones.
Praying for you, Little One. You are a trooper! Thank you for all you do.
Blessings!!
Teri
Don't you just love (ha ha) those kinds of weeks? I've had a similar one and I feel your pain.
I'm learning (slowly) to appreciate delayed gratification... at least it lasts longer. Eternally in fact, when it comes to ministry.
Amanda,
Have you had a camera at my house? This sure sounds familiar. Thanks for the encouraging words.
Blessings,
Sherri
PS. I'm with you on the leftover sushi!:)
I can relate a bit. I love leading our Sunday School class and going to church. But this last Sunday I was coming down with the stomach flu. We had to leave church early. :o(
I was sick for 3 1/2 days. By the time I began feeling better (Thursday Morning) and looking forward to getting some cleaning done I had an accident.
I was on my way home after taking the kids to school when I noticed an animal had gotten into our trash. I stop to get out and pick up the trash. When I go to push the trash into the can something in the bag cut a half inch gash in the top of my thumb. I spent two and a half hours in the ER--just to have them super glue it together. Sigh.
Somedays it's best to just go back to bed. :o)
Love, Anna
I'm sorry you had such a challenging week, Amanda. That's just plain hard when things are so disappointing. You'll be in my prayers for a more encouraging weekend.
With love from your siesta,
Gretchen
Ok can I just say thank you amanda! Your advice from your mom was needed by me also. My Yuck week was last week and God asked me,"do you serve Me or do you serve the cicumstances".I hate when He says stuff like that :)
Sometimes I feel like if it where not for how much I love Him or how much my Heart soars when I am serving Him I would hide in my closet and only talk to my husband. Teaching hurts sometimes...I dont know if that makes sense. Thank you for how honest you are ...I was going to say real but how else are you going to be? Our LORD has a amazing way of making us real
One more thing...
Thank you for the message from your mom. I also lead a class for forth grade girls on Wed. nights. Sometimes it's a bit discouraging because they don't seem to be listening or even care to hear what you have to say.
Many of them are from the neighborhood and come because their mom's drop them off on the way to the bar... or because they can get a free dinner... or their grandparents bring them...
I know that Jesus wants me to tell them how much he loves them and to sow those seeds your were talking about. I used to be a girl a lot like them and I'm so thankful God put people in my path to sow the seeds of his love in my heart.
It's good to be reminded that the reaping may be a long time coming. I just pray I have an opportunity to see some of it. :o)
May you have a blessed weekend.
Much love,
Anna
Amanda,
I desperately needed to hear these words of encouragement tonight - our Lord's timing is so perfect! Thanks for sharing.
I have had a bad "off week" myself, although I don't think it could touch the exploding toilet incident you had! haha, i love it:) seriously, I would be mortified, so I'll try not to laugh too hard! love you girl!
Amen indeed! Praise the Lord His mercies are new every morning!!
Blessings, mariel
growingingodliness.blogspot.com
Hi Sorry your week was challenging week.Amanda , Mon my car had to go to the shope, will guess what it was a recall did I know nope,so at lest they paid for it, I thought I broke something but it needed batteres then I got sick own my tummie all day because I forgot to take my meds the day before,that was all Mon things got better in fact I got to clean out 2 closet's & 14 drawer's I have much more to do but will, I thought my daughter & 2 grandchildren was comeing in will wrong, shes sick & I cant be there to help her.shes 4 hrs away,my husband is comeing down with soemthing , but I got to help a friend & my mom, so I had a great week,could have done without mon. ha ha, if I was close I would have made you soemthing & given you a hug & coffe from Starbucks God bless Love siesta In Christ Victoria from NC Hope next week is outstanding
man..I keep missing these posts that you guys are asking questions!!!
sorry about the toilet...i've had days like that.
Pray for my dad. I just found out he has severe cancer in his colon and all over his liver. The doctors basically opened him up, and closed him back up today. He is a believer but not responding well to this. I am broken.
Your exploding toilet wins! I had posted on the prior two and then wanted to add my issues with overeating - but didn't go back to post again. Then, through this bad-to-the-bone week, God showed me a HUGE example. The night after I stubbornly didn't share about my food on the post, a 1st grader at my school came to the office. He was having a horrible morning and burst into tears and blurted, "But I'm just so hungry, I can't even think and it hurts so bad." Did I mention I had just shoved a donut in my mouth as he came through the door? I've been studying out my abuse of God's grace ever since then!
Here's to praying that you weren't still at the restaurant when the toilet exploded!
Peace,
Kim Feth in Apex, NC
May we see the answers to the questions from the precious post?
Jenny in Bama
Oh my Word! What a marvelous word from "Anonymous"...when God said "do you serve me, or do you serve the circumstances?".
How true. Most of the time I get so wrapped up in the circumstances, I forget Who I am serving.
Blessings,
Charlene
Amanda,
Yes it has been one of those week. I lead a study and this week I baked and got there early to prepare. Well 4 out of our 14 showed up. Great know baked goods have to stay on my counter. Then I found out a scripture I had prayed for over 20 years was used in the wrong context (devastation) Who changed that scripture on me. Well tommorrow another day another adventure with Jesus,( I know He must laugh at our adventures)
Love in Christ
Judy
I'm sorry about the bad week Amanda. I hope it gets better for ya. God Bless.
I came home totally exhausted today and while waiting on our friends to get here to go out for dinner I decided to catch up on some blog friends. I am sorry you have had a rough week but the bathroom incidence made me laugh (I'm sorry) and dare I say thank you?!?!? You liifted my spirits believe it or not! Have a totally blessed weekend!
In His Graces~Pamela
I am so sorry you have had such a yucky week. I am glad you had a nice lunch with your husband and were able to reschedule with your friend. Put on praise music and dance before the Lord, it's the best solution for a bad week. Here are uplifting words for you:
'I will praise you, O Lord, with all my heart" Ps. 9:1
"I love you, O Lord, my strength." Ps. 18:1
"Show me Your ways, O Lord, teach me your paths" Ps. 25:4
"How priceless is Your unfailing love!" Ps. 36:7
"May Your love and truth always protect me." Ps. 40:11
"Send forth Your light and Your truth, let them guide me" Ps. 43:3
"Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin." Ps. 51:2
"Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me." Ps. 51:10
"Be exalted, O God...let Your glory be over all the earth." Ps. 57:5
"Because Your love is better than life, my lips will glorify You." Ps. 63:3
"My mouth is filled with Your praise, declaring Your splendor all day long." Ps. 71:8
"Hear my prayer, O Lord; listen to my cry for mercy." Ps. 86:6
"Open my eyes that I may see wonderful things in Your Word." Ps. 119:18
"Let not my heart be drawn to what is evil" Ps. 141:4
"Let the morning bring me word of Your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in You. Show me the way I should go, for to you I lift my soul. Rescue me from my enemies, O Lord, for I hide myself in you. Teach me to do Your will, for You are my God; may Your good Spirit lead me on level ground." Ps. 143:8-10
Amanda,
"Queen Complainy from the Hawhiney Islands" That cracked me up! We all need to vent once in a while.
God has used this blog to really minister to me the past couple of weeks. With the "roll call" and then the BF posts I was praising and crying and praising some more. I spent a couple mornings of my quiet time meditating on the scriptures and/or spiritual truths from the "roll call." It was so moving I had to call a couple friends to make sure they weren't missing out on anything on the blog. Know that God is using this blog to minister to me and I know I am not alone!
Hey Amanda, tough day. Those girls are totally missing out. They'll never know how much we pray for them and buy California rolls we really can't afford till they get to heaven.
Dearest Amanda,
I can relate to your pain, and if you don't mind me passing on a word to Beth I would greatly appreciate it.
I sent most of this through the form this morning, but feel a strong need to send this again.
It's Friday, February 1st and my heart is so brokenhearted over words I spoke to you recently in the comments section of your blog. I do not want to repeat what I wrote, but rather confess my error and sin to you, as I have our gracious Heavenly Father. I have judged you wrongly, and I am so very sorry for using such harsh and critical language. I'm sure my words didn't edify you, and for that I repent and am so very very sorry. I am so ashamed, and I have sinned against you. Will you please forgive me for having a critical spirit and for using language that wasn't edifying to you. When my comment wasn't published on the blog, I realized my sin there, and I felt so ashamed of what I had done. Beth, I am so very very sorry if I hurt you. I realize now that in my youth, and in my flesh I was so wrong. You truly are a woman of God, and I am so sorry for what I did. And even more so Beth, I am heartsick that I may have hurt you. I am so sorry Beth....and I have learned a valuable lesson. I hope you can forgive me.
Thank you for your time today.
thora
Amanda,
I certainly do understand about rough weeks. I am very sorry about the toilet experience...you'll look back and laugh at that one of these days. My week has been tiring. I have 4 children ages 7 to 12 and my husband has been out of town since last Sunday. My kids are great, but I teach school full time and I just get so exhausted! I am doing the Psalms of Ascent study right now and last nights homework really hit me hard (in a good way!) It was the lesson about Psalms 125. It said "God is with us and for us even when His face and His favor seem hidden. Mountain-like security only comes from trusting God, not what He's done for us or given us." That was really powerful for me.
I hope that you have a truly peaceful weekend!
Blessings,
Angie
Girl,
You are soooo not alone. I had a whopper myself, but the good Lord has lifted me up and placed me on solid ground! Amen!
Blessings to you!
Monica
You need to read my post from today about yesterday, A. Wow! It would seem that this was "a week" for many. But there shall be showers of blessing! So get your perky-fun polka-dot umbrella....cause a soaking will come. Yes indeed!
Love y'all!!!
holly
Siestas,
One of our Siestas has posted above about her Dad being dx with cancer.
Everyone that sees it, lift her and her Dad up to the Father tonight.
GOD will give her the strength.
Love and blessings,
Teri
Toilet exploding on you?! Wow,I thought that only happened in comedies. Yes, I've had many days like you've described minus the exploding toiet. These are the kinds of things you can look back on and laugh about.
Last Dec. 23 I was helping at church passing out gifts for the Angel Tree project. Feeling good about being in God's will (pride?)and serving him, anyway, I happened to trip and fall and dislocated my shoulder. How's that for an off week!
Hope my little story encourages you ;) your week could have been like mine.
Can't wait to read the answers to the questions this weekend.
Amanda girl,
Just imagine that I'm smiling a really big, cheesy smile at you and hugging you tight. I feel for you girlie, and I know your pain. As I would say...you've had a grrrr! week. :) And that's just that. Now grit your teeth and say grrrr as loud as you can and then smile a big, cheesy grin back at me! :)
Thanks and now it's all better! Heehee...
Love ya,
Missy in SC
Amanda, My 93 year old grandmother sent me a note last year that said, "Sometimes when you prepare the most, it seems that the least come. Don't discount that 'one'."
It was an encouragement to me, and I pray that it will be one to you, too.
Sweet Lord ~ Thank you for this post on my first time visiting LPM Blog! How amazing is our Lord! Thank you for sharing that another(me for one!) may be comforted! The only way to persevere is with our eyes on Him alone, Amen?!
So glad to know I am not the only one... Went to the gym for a group exercise class - I'm the one who likes to 'hide' in the corner and be invisible to all of the young girls. During the first exercise I noticed that my shoes looked funny - on a second look, I realized I had on two different shoes - even different colors! So much for hiding...
Oh do I know what you're talking about. Here's hoping next week is brighter all the way around.
Bless your dear heart - foot soakin' time - maybe your man will join you! Can understand too - has been an "intersting" week, to say the least.
Peaceful weekend Siestas!
I so know what you mean. This week has been a 'challenge' from start to finish. I am leading a women's Bible study on Wednesday nights and by the time I got there I was a complete wreck. I had one of those coughs where you are constantly clearing your throat - I hate it when people do that! I even had a picture in my mind of all 30 women laughing at me for my uncontrollable TB cough. Everything had gone wrong, while I was arranging chairs in the classroom my kids were not being 'their best' and when I finally took them to AWANAS and got back to begin class, I realized I had a hole right in the front of my cute little shirt (I think my bracelet must have gotten caught in the material). So on top of everything else, I thought everyone was staring at my shirt and feeling sorry for me because it was torn. Thankfully, even though I was self conscious the class went very well. And wouldnt you know it, after class was over one of the ladies in the class prayed to receive Christ.......goes to show that God can use us even when we are not at our best (I think I will call that shirt my 'holy' shirt). Sometimes I get so flustered over little things that God has to show me what is really important....like seeing people come to Him.
So, you are not alone! God sees the sushi in your fridge and He will bless you for your efforts to minister to those girls. I am sure you are making a huge impact on those girls and I know they really appreciate you. Your mom's advice is right on target for all of us.
Sorry about the toilet water (I have to say that one of my nightmares has always been that a public toilet would flush out at me instead of in - I know, I need counseling). And also, too bad about the wrong hospital.....I do that sort of thing on a monthly basis, so I can totally sympathize (unfortunately). I think there is something that happens after childbirth that causes some of the neurons to ummmm, 'stop firing'. I have had two children so I am only thinking at half capacity at this point.
Hope next week is better!
Hi, Amanda, I keep missing those questions days too and when I do fine them its close.
Oh,well I do now what you mean about those nasty toilet!! that has happen to me and its just awful.
Hope you have a better week.Blessing marina
I cannot believe how timely this post is (well, yes I can). You described my week exactly (different scenarios, same feelings). I needed to hear your mom's good word of encouragement. I had a little ministry-pity-party with myself today, thinking selfish thoughts like "I am SO under-appreciated". I got discouraged by some things that happened at the Stepping Up study I am leading, and in a few sessions (I counsel women at my church). But that is NOT what my ministry to women is all about, and I know that. It is so easy to let the mind go down that nasty path, though. I fought this all week long - looks like I have not been the only one!
Thanks so much for transparency and encouraging us who also minister in the trenches each week. I'm back on track now!
Blessings!
Amanda- I didn't have that week but I had that day... you see, despite my checking of this blog multiple times a day... usually TOO many according to my husband... you seemed to post in the 90 minutes I was homeschooling my children causing me to miss out on a golden opportunity.
So you see... I too found myself boo-hissing!!
Had I made it to the site in enough time I would have asked this question (which I wouldn't mention except noone else did and it's been on my heart for a while now)
How do we as parents share our faith in the Lord Jesus Christ with our children in a way that will cause them to BELIEVE in Him and not simply accept "Christianity" as routine and or history... How do we help them make this FAITH theirs????
SOrry about your week.
Hey Amanda,
I feel your pain! Sometimes all I can do is thank God that in His wisdom He made us need to sleep!!!
Hang in there my sister and thanks for venting to us. I have been having a rough ministry MONTH! I feel better knowing someone else is suffering with me. (Very mature, I know :)
My husband just asked me last night...at the end of it all do you want to look back and say it all went perfectly and I had lots of material things...or....I followed Gods call and am blessed. I wasn't feelin' blessed at the time but know my reward is eternal. Thanks for sharing that ministry isn't cookie cutter easy like we hope it will be. I'm just gonna go love my babies (17,11 and 6)and eat chocolate!!!
Bless you sweetie and have a well deserved relaxed weekend-I just know the college girls who did show up received just what they needed by your generosity and guidance. I do pray for two young ladies with all your qualities to be in my sons' lives one of these days.
AMEN SIESTA!
I am SO ready to head straight to bed myself and cuddle with my hubby! I need a good cuddle today! Sigh! Some days we just need to Thank Him for the little things...whatever they may be!
With love,
Donna
I once had a ketchup bottle explosion and now I feel pretty good about it! Toilet water - you poor dear!
I live in Alabama, but we were in Dallas for Thankgiving. We were thankful for the Black Eyed Pea because it was the only restaurant open. But we didn't have peas - I thought that was odd...
Wow, that post and scripture could not have been more appropriate. I have been in women's ministry for a short time (I had to overcome my fear of public speaking b/f I would answer the call although it still gets to me)
Last January I met a wonderful woman who decided to take the Breaking Free study I was leading. It was my first time leading a study and she was such an encouragement. In getting to know this woman I realized how troubled and tormented she was. Over the year I took her to a healing house of prayer, called her, e-mailed her and just tried to be a friend.
To make a long story short she ended her life on Wednesday night. It was a complete shock since I had already talked her out of an attempt a few months before. I had a team of people including her parents working with her but she just gave up. That was just the icing on an already really bad 7 months.
However, as scripture says we are not to grow weary and we are to look to Him for He is our redeemer and our strength.
Thank you for always encouraging us and loving us through.
Blessings,
Kim
Crazy..I'm in the middle of Steppin Up and your mom just reviewed this verse from Galations in my study today. Hmmm... is The Lord trying to tell us something?
Oh girl, I am so glad I am not the only one who plans big for college students and gets a few. Or inevitably the next time plan small and get a crowd! I can never win with our group either! But God always provides either way! :) It is good to know that if is "normal." What is that anyway?
Believe me I am understanding by experience the LONG sowing required in ministry. Oh I needed to hear that comment. I am learning first hand how long it can seem to be.
Thanks for sharing this-you encouraged me today!
In the trenches with you!
Angela
oh dear sweet Amanda,
I can relate...it was one of those weeks for me as well...at times I said Lord just let me shut the lights off to this day...but thankfully we have siestas who pray for us and comfort food and the most important...God's comforting love around us.
Praying you have a better weekend.
Hey, Beth! Are there any more Wednesday's with Beth on Life Today? I'm not getting any new studies!Oh, and Amanda, I've had one of "those days" also! As I was driving during a rain storm my driver's side windshield wiper broke! As it was flapping in the wind and rain, I had to turn it on so I could lean to the right while I was driving to see out of the right windshield window!!! As I pulled into a Sonic which was right next door to a Auto Zone, to get my wiper fixed, I ordered some drinks for my girls and there were holes in both of the cups, so my cup holders were full of the "wet stuff" as was my windshields.!!! Love ya'll ! Bye and God Bless!!!
And I don't want to sound to sound like a winey hiney either- but can I say...... I understand.
We restarted our women's group last night and... I was the only one who showed up.
It ended up being a good thing because there were a couple of bold words from God while I was waiting.
A GOD thing.
So since I was not going to be teaching I decided to go and visit a local book store and browse-while there I ran into one of the women that was supposed to be at womens group. Hmmm. Could have been very awkward. I was very sweet and told her I was glad she was having a good evening with her daughter hanging out. And I meant it!
So I got a little me time.... away from home. And then instead of eating :) I went shopping. HA! But, to my credit it was necessary shopping.
Glad the week is over and now I am heading out on vacation. Yahoojah!
I am carrying my lap top with me and I will spend some time studying for next weeks study--just like Beth does. But I don't need a laundry basket of resource books like Beth.:)
Have a good weekend--refreshing will come.
Your Sis
I'm really sorry a toilet exploded on you, how gross! I do a ladies night out for the women at my church and last week only 3 ladies were there. We have over 500 members at our church. I get really discourged at that sometimes. But I know that God brought only the 4 of us together for a reason. He even reveled that reason right there that night. It was so Awesome! So maybe that is what he was doing with you and your college girls!!
I'm so sorry about your week. I know how discouraging and just plain exhausting an "off week" can be.
Dear Lord,
May Amanda and her family feel your grace this weekend. May her spirit be refreshed. May you rejoice over her with singing. May Your face shine upon her and give her peace.
Amen
You poor thing- I'm sorry!
Oh, how I wish I could be in your college group. I would've come for sure! (It's so great that you work with the college girls. I know I appreciate all of the young adults that work with us :))I'm in a small group right now with the guys and girls from my college group. I'm itching to do a girl's only Bible study too, though.
Hope next week is much better for you!
AJ, I would call that a "donkey day." Not sure where I first heard or made that phrase up but seems to sum up my days like this.
Have a great Saturday and Lord's Day. =) Jill
Leading Bible study can be challenging. Our group for the Stepping Up series is definitely smaller than I would've liked, but I feel like God always puts a group (certain mix of ladies) together for a reason.
I do love the musical pieces in each video in this series. I tend toward the demonstrative in my praise and it was all I could do not to raise my hands during the praise songs of the first two sessions while, in contrast, one of the other ladies was distractingly flipping through her workbook!
God will make a way,
Allyson
Oh my dear Amanda... I'm so sorry to hear that you had such an awful week. Thanks for your honesty. =) I can't even imagine how you must've felt when that toilet exploded on you. =( Poor dear!
I am guessing that maybe God wants to remind you that He is still "in charge", hey?
So, just take a deep breath, rest for a while, and start over...
But, better yet, just remember that "His mercies are new every morning". I learned from some sweet lady's book called "Praying God's Word", and I bet you can guess who wrote it... =) Yeah, I know that your dear Mama isn't "perfect", either, but she does know the Word very well, and I can't tell you how much she has taught me from It and Jesus over these past 5-1/2 years.
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I didn't get a chance to ask a question in your earlier post, as we were too busy snowblowing the silly driveway this morning. So, I don't know if you will let this one count as one to be answered, but I'm gonna try anyways, okay?
They are 2 simple questions, I think, at least for people like Y'all who have been studying His Word for decades now.
1)How have you learned to memorize Scripture?
2) How do each of you spend your "Quiet time with the Lord"?
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In Christ's Love,
Jennifer
Southern Wisconsin
Oh Amanda,
Gosh, what a week you've had! God sure has some strange and different ways to grow His fruit in us, doesn't he? Like patience for one. That seems to be what He's working on in me. ;-)
I pray you have a weekend that's nothing but fun and relaxation!
Love and Blessings,
Patti
Amanda - I am so sorry. I will be praying next week goes better.
Karen in TX
Praise God for California Rolls - you want a lunch date soon?
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It's not necessarily been an off week for me personally, but a LONG WEEK!!! I am a mother of three--all girls! This past week my husband and my two oldest girls, ages 6 and almost 5, came down with the flu. It was TERRIBLE! Thankfully I and my 3 month old did not get sick at all. Can I get a Hallelujah! :) I even put a post on my own blog calling it a Calgon story. :) I have just started the "Stepping Up" study and could totally feel the "Woe is me" day. I believe it was day 2, week 1. Needless to say I didn't have a hard time rewriting that Psalm as my own. :) I'm so thankful that God supplies all our needs. He filled me with everlasting strength as I took care of three sick ones and maintained a fairly clean kitchen. :)
Thank you for sharing your story!
Lori
I know how you feel. I was just so glad to put my kids to bed last night and just veg in front of the t.v. That was one thing I couldn't possibly mess up or have backfire on me.
But I did have one reason to rejoice. The reason I just wanted to sit on the couch alone was that my montly lady stuff was at work. But I was rejoicing because I had earnestly prayed last month if, just for one month, God would allow it to start on any day other than the one I teach Sunday school on. And bless God, yesterday was Thursday. I just had to praise Him for answered prayer!!!
Oh, I've had those weeks - I've even had one of those weeks all crammed into one day!
At least you can truly say your cup (or bowl in this instance) runneth over....and over, and over and over! ;)
Amen to mama...
honestly, I'd settle for an off week (and all of that yummy food in my fridge!). Mines been more like an off-month or so...
Blessings,
Karla
Thanks for sharing, Amanda. I'm having a bit of a pity-party at my house. My wonderful, smart, hard-working hubby has been out of a job since August and I'm a SAHM.. we have been learning trust BIG TIME and God has been miraculously faithful in His provision, but man oh man.. I have been feeling flat out ignored by Him lately and I've never experienced that before. However, I know I've done my share of ignoring Him.. *blush*.. and in my head, I know He isn't really ignoring me.. that's just how it feels. I mean really.. we're just asking for WORK for a man with a wife and five kids to support and this is not a lazy man, but a man who wants to work!! I know God is teaching us and holding us in His mighty right hand and it is a season in our life, a part of our story, that we will always look back on and be thankful for - our faith has grown, our love for each other has grown, and our testimony is growing.. but it sure isn't FUN. I'm kinda rambling, I guess, but back to your post, I recently had my 12 and 13 year old kids memorize that verse with me - emphasizing IF YOU DO NOT GIVE UP!! Thank you for sharing your heart with us.
Love and prayers~
Linda
Hey AJ,
Hope you have a wonder-filled week coming up! We will all pray for you extra hard.:)
Since you came up with PDLAMB... I have to share one about a toliet.lol When we were in Raleigh for Steps of Ascent, Beth had us do PLDAMBs and one lady said she tried to squat down and pull up her pants before the automatic toilet flushes. I can NOT use a public toilet without "seeing" her and thinking of you!!!
About the shusi...I would not have eaten it the FIRST time!!!
oh my goodness, the ministry advice about sowing and reaping could not have come at a more perfect time. it has definitely been an "off week" for me as well. my hubby and i live on a boys ranch and two boys that we have poured our lives into for months both got into big time trouble this week and it seems like they have taken some major steps backward. thanks for the encouraging word. we're praying the seeds we've planted will bloom one day in their lives! :)
Thank you thank you thank you Lord Jesus for this precious Amanda!!
I too have been given this scripture over the last two weeks. I teach dance a a small "Christian owned" dance studio where the only one criticizing me is me...anyway I disciple college age kids and do my weekly Biblestudy ontop of a thousand other little things honestly I am not at all tooting my horn or think I AM anything...ok-ok get to the point Tiff:o)WEll I left in the middle of class one night feeling so desperately insignificant yet over run I came home and knew i needed to get myself into the Word. That week was the very scripture that you placed in your blog and I have been clinging to it every day. The whole sowing and reeping concept as well. But the importance of my taking the small insignificant (to me) seeds and since they are packed with kingdom power they posess the greatest potential. Small and hidden. Thank you Lord praise you Jesus!
We live so close to each other, I love Central Market too. I rarely get to go! All the Dallas siestas should get together. Ok I've talked enough. Tiff
I love this blog! Bless you guys for getting us all together. I can't wait to see all the answers to the questions. I didn't get in to the asking I was too late, but many of my questions were asked isn't that awesome. I can't wait! Ok I can but I will have butterflies until then.
Amanda,
I am so sorry you had a "bum" week but you know you made me smile :) I just know if I were to meet you, you would be the sweetest girlfriend!
When I get "out of sorts" or things seem to go wrong it's usually because I am "fussin" too much!!
Lord, it's not about meeeeee! Praise Him!
I had to laugh because days like that happen to me all the time. I teach fourth grade and I love them... but there are days when I don't know where my head is and I feel like just going home for the day. I had the worst cold ever and I couldn't hear out of my ears...ahhh!! It drove me nuts! I have been making noddles with my noodle maker and I spent lots of time making the dough etc. and sure enough, my two golden retrievers ate all of my noodles!! I cried!! I am thankful for laughter though and that noodles are not what I base my life on. Praise the Lord!! :-)
Amanda,
I'm so sorry you've had a rough week. I wish more girls would have shown up for your college night. They missed out!
Last week was a little bit like that for me. I have a stress fracture on my foot and the dr. put me in a big, huge boot on my left foot. It's a pain....feels so huge.
On Wed. I'm doing a series with the youth girls at church. We're doing "Wild About You" and I was already feeling a little insecure and a couple of the girls were laughing and talking through the whole video. Then nobody would comment afterward....
Then, my daughter and I went to a friend's baby shower last Sat. and the mother-to-be told us her mom wasn't there because she found out she has cancer and was sick. We were both very emotional after that, knowing she was hating not being there. I pray she gets well soon and can enjoy that new baby!
Then the next day my 92 year old grandma was taken to the hospital.
This week has been better & the youth were SO MUCH BETTER this past Wed.
Hope your next week is better too!
Have a good weekend,
Valerie
Hardships this week? Missing the opportunity to respond to ya'll's request for input not once, not Twice, but THREE times! I missed because I'm experiencing insomnia from menopause--getting old is so much fun--and I end up sleeping during the day or I'm a walking zombie with eyes too tired to read blogs. Anybody have any cheese to go with my whine???
I just got back from Passion LA and I can't hardly wrap my mind around what happened there!!! I hope some of your college girls can go when it comes to Texas in a few weeks....
The Journey Continues~
Amanda, Why do you think I use The Journey Continues on all my blogs and end With "Heaven Bound" blessings? Because our lives are truly a journey that well end with blessings in Heaven! We just have to get through the middle and praise GOD for Siesta's that will pray,support, and comfort us during those steps.
YOU are loved and appreciated by so many! Stand Firm and "Carry the Light" for Jesus!
Kim Safina ~ California Coast
Queen Complainy from Hawhiney Islands???? That's really good, Amanda. I am totally using that one!
I hope your weekend is better....especially that there is no repeat performance from the exploding toilet! YIKES!!
It was a most unique week.
My husband's job ended...
Came to Houston and ran out of gas on the freeway...uh oh...
FINALLY! left Houston for F.W.
Received a FED EX anonymous envelope this morning from Houston
FIVE money orders
$1,000 each
Houston, I'm overwhelmed...
my beautiful God showed up where
I least expected
on I-45 and in a FED EX envelope
1st of all...Queen Complainey of the Hawhiney Islands!!!!! Priceless. I will DEFINITELY use that again.
2nd of all...just wait till The Tod has a little sibling...or 2 in my case...these kinds of weeks will be more common than the normal ones.
3rd of all...it's Friday. It's the weekend. Have a restful, fun, non-toilet-exploding-fridge-full-of-sushi, wonderful weekend.
We love you and not only are blessed by your wisdom, but your ability to be so normal, too. Thanks.
Not an "off" week...just a week with too much "on!"
It was my week to do the ballet carpool...meaning I had 3 LOUD preschoolers smooshed in the backseat of my PT Cruiser for a 1 hour (each way) drive to ballet at a church in Tallahassee. Talk about frazzled nerves.
I shopped online and ordered new furniture for one of the nursery classrooms at church...AND ordered materials for the new children's musical that I'm directing (starting next week!)
I've done TONS of stuff to get the ball rolling for an upcoming local "Miss Patty Cake" concert event.
I've written two 4-week Bible Story unit lesson plans to be used during 2 different children's church sessions.
I've shopped for baby shower gifts.
I've burned 6,000 stinking calories on the eliptical machine (our town has a "Biggest Loser" sort of contest going on, and of course, I've entered)
I've homeschooled.
WHATEVER POSSESSED ME to take on this many projects?!?!?! I barely have my head screwed on straight...I think I was far less busy back when I was a "working" woman!
Yes, I think we must ask God what HE wants us to do, commit to doing those things, and then do them well--the rest won't count for much in eternity anyhow.
That kind of stuff happens in our house ALL the time. We have the expression, "It's so hard to be dignified. So Hard!"
Dear Amanda,
This is a week that I am so glad has come to an end. It all started Thursday Jan 24th when my sister in law Stacy (40 yrs old) went home to be with our Lord Jesus Christ. She had Huntingtons Disease which there is no cure. Then on Wed of this week I find out that my employers are considering moving the company to Atlanta and no longer may need my services. But I continue on pressing forward to our goal. I know as long as I keep my focus on the Lord and do as he would have me do ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE, But I would ask each of you to please pray for each of these situations. My brother Eddie who is a pastor and father of two teenager son 19 and daughter 15.
Thank God the days are new each morning with wonderful possiblities.
Becky
Attalla, AL
Dear Amanda,
First, I laughed so hard at your Hawhiney Island commment..I've never heard that! I'm going to use it with my kids! :)
I want to encourage you, sweet sister. For the past few years, I've been leading Precept studies in my little corner of the world. The group has been as big as 45 people ("LORD, Heal My Hurts" brought people out of the woodwork!), and as small as a handfull.
When our group started to dwindle, I took it all personally. But, God has used that to humble me and to grow me.
From the day that we started, He wrote it on my heart to be faithful if only one showed up.
That hasn't happened to me, but it did happen to the leader that took the baton for the summer. On one night, everyone but one person called to cancel. She the leader showed up and held class, even though she knew only one would be there.
I didn't know about this until just last week, and it happened months ago. Yet, as that "one" told me the story, I wanted to weep. That "one" is a new believer, and she was so ministered to when she realized that the leader KNEW she'd be the only one coming, and showed up and held class with a heart of joy!
Our own Lord worked through 12.
May we never be too prideful to show for one.
My sweet, humble, meek friend ministered deeply to me through her heart of service, and she solidified for a new believer just how much she matters to God and to His servants.
I hope this encourages you.
Press on. Your reward is in heaven.
In His Love,
Jes
I'm so sorry you had a bad week. Really I am. Mine was not so hot either (but my youngest did turn 6 and I got to spend the day at The American Girl doll store, so that was a nice ending!), but when you said you ate at the Black-eyed Pea, that stopped me in my tracks! We use to have Black-eyed Peas in my next of the woods and they all closed. I can not tell you how many times I've longed for those biscuits, sweet tea and chicken fried chicken. Black-eyed Peas was my favorite resturant!!! So, in my book (apart from the toliet water), having lunch at the Black-eyed Pea would make it a good week for me! I hope next week is better!
We all have those weeks. I sometimes have those MONTHS. I stop what I'm doing and I say... DEVIL YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BE IN CONTROL OF ME. GOD IS IN CONTROL OF ME SO YOU GO AWAY. My attitude of yelling at the devil helps tremendously when I'm having a bad week. CINDY in NC
Taralynn - Praying for you and your Dad...
Amanda - Queen Complainey frorm the Hawhiney Islands is a hilarious "title"... Too funny. I'm so sorry you had a rough week.
I wanted to share two amazing blessings I received this week:
My hubby has been facing a difficult situation with his business, that could have become very ugly. This week it was resolved with the best possible outcome. A great stress relief and definitely answered prayer.
And yesterday I was driving my daughter (11), her best friend, and my son (9) from school. I had a CD of worship music playing, and those three kids spontaneously began singing along with the song:
"... and we'll all bow down. Kings will surrender their crowns, and worship Jesus. He is the love, the unfailing love, He is the love of God." It was just wonderful...
Hugs,
Adrienne
Amen on this post! Please know that the seeds you are planting go far beyond the college girls in your group!!
I also MUST share an "exploding toilet" story that I hope will make you feel better about yours. I was in high school in Plano, the year we had to play all our games at Texas Stadium because our field had been burned by our rivals. I was on drill team and we were getting ready to perform, using the visiting team locker room. I was in full regalia, putting the finishing touches on my 80's Texas hair (think BIG Siestas!) as I stood in front of the mirror above a row of urinals. The girl standing next to me said, "whew...that thing really stinks", speaking of the urinal in front of me. Before I could speak or move, she reached over and flushed it. We found out, as it splashed murky, beyond-foul liquid IN MY FACE, that it had apparently been clogged and "steeping" for some time. It was definitely NOT the bottom of my jeans that was wet!
You'll be happy to learn that, in Texas, the half-time show must go on. I cleaned up as best I could (we didn't have anti-bacterial anything back then, after all), applied a little more pancake makeup and Aquanet, and marched out proudly, flashing my dazzling smile made even whiter surrounded by blood red lipstick. Fortunately for the fans, the field is a long way down-wind from the stands! :o)
Praying that your weekend is a little better than your week and that all toilets in your vicinity are well-behaved.
It's nice to know that I wasn't alone in this "off" week!!
Although, God knocked our socks off on Thursday when my 90 year old grandmother, prayed to receive Christ!!! YES! 90 years old!
Praying next week is a "knock your socks off" in a good way, kind of week!!!
Blessings,
steph.
I am sorry you had a bad week : ( Thanks for sharing though b/c I really needed to hear those words of encouragement... I lead a small group and have been really wrestling with some things about it this week... then I open this... and God answers! I love how God does that! Thank you Lord! Hope next week is better!
God Bless - Emmy
P.S. I LOVE leftover sushi for breakfast... it is my favorite! (I know weird- huh?!?)
Ah, the Hawhiney Islands....I took a trip there myself this week! Believe me, you had more right to visit there than I. Our family has had a sick week with the flu and although I felt bad...mommies don't get to go to bed and be sick , do we? But sister, there is just something about a public toilet...and exploding on you is just way too much. May our Lord give you some sweet rest and affirmation this weekend. Many, many blessings to you.
When I read this post yesterday, I had to laugh...not because I was laughing at your bad week...but because not ten minutes beforehand, I had been moaning and complaining to God about what a yucky week it had been (other than my birthday day) and in fact, the previous weeks had been kinda yucky, too. The verse that He instantly brought to mind was Galations 6:9-10. You sort of sealed the deal for me. lol
Blessings...Susan
just checking
I'm new to the site - just this week - and this is the first blog I read. It couldn't have been more fitting for me this week.
Thank you so much - your comments were no accident - and God has used your story and all the comments to encourage me this morning!
Bless you! I look forward to getting to know you all!
Love,
Lynette :))
Well, AMEN to that! The Lord has kept me humble this week that's for sure and it's a GOOD THANG! We presented "The Wedding Feast" at a women's prison on Wednesday night for some really sweet precious ladies who love the Lord!
Not only did I forget to introduce 2 of our ladies who came with us, the "Tule" we used for decorating purposes,(I have a black lab):) we found little black hairs lined along the Tule! How precious is that! My husband, who portrayed our ONE AND ONLY, got choked on the piece of bread during the Lord's supper. It was a very special evening Indeed!
Just reminds me yet again, that we are so imperfect, us humans, and I am NOTHING, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, without HIM!
HE REIGNS,
lynda m.
What a blessing to hear this wisdom! It is so like God to give me a message that just hits me upside the head...I think that He has been trying other things but have not been listening. Thank you for being open to His leading from a whiney girl that needed to hear His truth.
The toilet explosion! lol...Girlfriend. I'm with your Mama, but seriously, go take yourself a break!
That's when I "began again" in my head during the day all the way up until 10 pm! :)
I love the name of the restaurant (with the exploding toilet - bleh) - Black Eyed Pea! I hope your weekend makes up for the off week. *hugs* Cathy
girl, I feel your water...
A,
I needed to hear that this morning. Yes, ministry work is hard stuff, my husband and I are raising 11 children, five are teenage girls, and I am not seeing ANY plants at the current time. Sometimes I do want to give up, just pack it all in, and say, well I tried. But I know MY GOD is bigger than that and HE IS IN ME. How amazing is that truth!!!
love you all,
Amanda,
Hope this morning has started off for the better. His mercies are new every morning. Aren't we all glad for that?
I missed the last 3 posts before comments were closed. But I loved the responses. And can't wait to hear some of the answers that you and your mom come up with. What a good idea! Thank you for blessing us with your creative minds.
I've been so blessed by this topic because I too lead a small group Bible study and it's frustrating when one or none show up for study. It's comforting to know others go through the same thing. Bethie, has that happened to you recently? Ha!Ha!
Sweet Heart
We've all been there!!!
When my DH is away on business I always wait for the other shoe to drop. We inevitably end up with one in the ER, car trouble, random house disasters, and the like. Fortuneately, I have never had a toilet explode on me...so you win!!!
Mom to three, Wife to one,Daughter of the King, and SIESTA to ALL of YOU!!!
April
Amanda,
I remember my first child at Jackson's age, but by this time I was entertaining a barely-a-few-months-old infant and my bustling two year old! I could not imagine a full boat of ministry in my life at the same time! I honor you, friend. The Lord is amazingly glorified in you. We are so blessed and encouraged by your posts, and your authenticity. It's not murmurring and complaining if you are just relieving whatever pressure you have felt this week! You were also sharing a godly perspective on such disappointments and difficulties - it is all to His glory, dear - and He loves you so.
Blessings beloved.
P.S. Sometimes it helps to express our frustration to others in words, it helps us to hear where we need to realign with God or where we have discovered some juicy revelation that we need to chew on for a while. It is amazing how the Lord works that out when we are sold out to walking with Him everyday.
I'm with you. Let's pretend this week didn't happen. After four days without sleeping (blame cold medicine), I have done nothing but sleep for the last three (blame a different cold medicine). Actually, I guess I could pretend this week didn't happen because I am not sure how much of it I remember.
Sending you love and prayers. I'm still learning that sometimes those two or four people that show up and make us think 'it's a failure' are actually God's blessing! I'm leading a mom's study with 3 ladies (including me!) I was so disappointed, until I realized how much God is using it to strengthen our friendships and help us share things we wouldn't with a bigger group. Hang in there!
I had one of those "bad weeks"...but mine was all cramed into one day....It was actually a year ago, but it was so bad that I remember it like it was yesterday! To comfort myself I bought a VENTI/FULL FAT w/ WHIPPED CREAM Mocha before heading into my Graduate class. I ended up knocking the entire pickin' thing over b-4 I even had a sip! I seriously was concerned if I was even capable of driving myself home! Oh, it was ugly!!! Thanks for sharing! Ü
To Taralynn, I am SOO sorry, please know that you and your family are in my prayers!
Heather in CA
Oh girl. I hate days/weeks like that too. :(
Your sweet Mama's quote applies to my ministry of homeschooling as well. It is a wonderful reminder.
Wow ladies, I wonder it sounds like we have all had a rough week! I know I have - I wonder if it has something to do with how encouraging and major the BF post questions on areas of bondage still and victories won! I know I my heart was heavy over the bondage stories, but major lifted over the stories of victories!
Maybe we are all a little tender right now, and the enemy loves to pounce during those times! I am a homeschooling mom, kids were sick this week, home business was nuts, just really in the throws of life, with the threat of total defeat right around the corner. But, we didn't fall off the horse this week - kept doing battle, and now it is Saturday and tomorrow is the beginning of a new Lord's week!
Hang in there Siestas - His mercies are new every morning!!!
Jodi
Ghee, what a week, sorry. I guess we've all had them.
My week wasn't great either. I live in Arkansas and we had 40-60 mph wind that resulted in several roofing jobs at some of our properties (I'm a property manager, we had property (subdivision) where the pipe to the community well busted, we had 4.5" snow,snow forced cancelatin of lunch with a friend, flu shut down our school (25% absent)and it's cold!!
I am h aving a pizza party for my S.S. kids tonight and I am hoping that with all that is going on I have a good turnout. I understand the planning for a group and then the disappointment when a handful show up.
On a good note, it is my rare weekend completely off and I slept til 11:00 this morning!
Have a great weekend!
Oh and P.S.
I got my electric bill yesterday and it was $70 hgiher than last month! What will next month bring with the snow??
And all this while my boss is out of town someplace warm and summy. My boss owes me! Isn't is parr for the course to have disasters at work when you are left alone. Ha!
Oh Amanda,
My heart goes out to you. I have to say that I am not suprised since there was so much accomplished in the eternal realm with the last couple post this week! (I'm still reading thru them!) They were so powerful, I sent the link to women who might not ever visit this blog. Many times there seems to be a backlash for all the territory gained - which I am sure there was. :)
But take courage, even this blog was an encouragement to God's saints. I know it sure fit perfectly for this household's week.
Be encouraged, even with your small group! I'm with you for the calf rolls - alltho my girls would love them!
We'll pray for God to show you a glimpse of the mighty things accomplished this week for His glory and for a great weekend!
love you
mk
PS - I'll be praying for the dear sister and her dad. I have been there and will pray!
Sorry about your week, I've had one myself. No details. No exploding toliet.
May I make a suggestion? Next time you open up for questions, give us notice and also do it when everyone has a chance to be a part, those of us at work could not be a part.
We are studying Psalm and it is very personal and exactly what I need at this point in my life. Last year was a very hard year for me and it was all personal.
I was working on Psalm 125 last night and I see that God delivered me from "someone and circumstances" after "enough" Psalm 123 and 124 with that person! God removed that person from this earth and unfortunately that person is not with our Father.
Enjoy your weekend. Treat yourself to that special treat.
Oh, Amanda! You have my sympathy! I'll share a little thing to hopefully help you feel better. I was to teach children's church one morning and I had the lesson prepared but I needed a fresh banana. I planned to get one from the Kroger's next to my church. I was early and feeling good about myself when I turned the corner and saw that the Kroger's closed down! Time was ticking so I decided to try the gas station (lot of prayers went up before I went inside). Spotted bananas. Gas station #2, spotted bananas. Gas station #3, spotted bananas. So, I decided to find another grocery store. Worship time had started, still had some time before children's church. I got so lost (lots of construction) and I couldn't find a grocery store. Nor could I find my way back to church! I called the Pastor (I was desperate) over and over thinking for whatever reason he'd pick up his cell phone. Finally I had a meltdown (did I mention I was pregnant?) and left a sobbing message on his phone. My husband was asleep at home - dead to the world so he didn't hear our phone ring a million times. I left several sob messages on our phones too. (He's a fireman and had worked a 24 hour shift). SO, I ended up making the biggest circle around the Beltway and made it to church - an hour later. Still no banana. I burst through the door and asked through tears, "Are there any children today?" Yes, I asked that as soon as I got in the door and yes, it was during the service. I was THAT distraught. And, you know what? There was not a child present. Can you believe?? We are a small church but WHAT IN THE WORLD??!!
Amanda! I love you so my dear! I have had days like that too! your mamma is so wise! you are too! Keep serving the lord! Love you!
I'm sending you a starbucks coffee one of your favorite with an extra shot in it. It must be the time of the year as I feel very spiritually down these last 2 weeks. Not a week I want to repeat either. It can only get better thankfully with the Lord in our lives. I often wonder if he helps out with our fun or not so fun week, he probably chuckled up in heaven about the toilet, you have to admit now that was funny. I now not when it happened. God has a good sense of humor. I'll be praying for you and remember
"HIS GRACE IS SUFFICIENT FOR YOU."
That's what God has been teaching me no matter what happens in our lives " His grace is sufficient for you."
Blessings Sarah - Prayer Warrior
You ministered to me greatly today! I have had a terrible week and just felt like all my work has been for nothing. Thanks for posting this!
Can I just say AMEN for the start of a new week! :)
thanks...i needed to see that scripture today :)
often my roommates and i have to look at each other and say, "OK, Jesus is still coming back...we will get over this"...and this was one of those weeks.
amanda, all i see is all the "sowing" on your part...you were on The Lord's missions every time...not your own....sure wish i was your nextdoor neighbor...i would have joined you on weds. night representing 3 college girls with my "maturity" (not spiritual-strictly years)and loved the food-spiritual and earthly! Your loved one is in my prayers and enjoy your rescheduled visit in DALLAS this time!
I am having kind of a rough week, too. Our family is moving from Europe back to the U.S. in 2.5 weeks, and there is a somewhat mountainous list of things that need to be done before we can get on that plane ("we" being me, my husband, our 4-year-old and 4 cats). I have had a nasty cold for nearly a week, and have not been able to work on much of anything on the list. Then on Thursday, I found out that I am pregnant. I am 36 and have lost 3 babies previously, so finding out I am pregnant usually brings at least a little anxiety. This time I'm kind of overwhelmed with thinking about trying to make such a huge move while pregnant. But the Lord knew what He was doing, so I am trying to trust and not be afraid.
Siestas, if the Lord brings us to your mind, would you please pray for me and my family? Please pray for us not to be anxious about anything, for peace in our household and for us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts rather than lean on our own understanding. Oh, and that God will help us find the house He has for us in the States. Thank you so much for your prayers.
What a week! The good news is that it's behind you now and you may even find yoursel looking back and laughing one day about the toilet incident. That one just might have done me in! I'm glad you came through it and hope that you stay dry this week.
Bless your sweet heart, Amanda. A toilet exploding on you in a public place is something no one should have to endure!
Taralynn819, I am praying for you and your father. Love and Blessings,
Jennifer
I am totally with you on the bad week topic. My 6-year-old, independent minded, strong-will child, had 3 behavior episodes this week complete with time outs, etc. She was sent to the office as well. Needless to say, she went to bed earlier than normal two days and lost dessert (Moose Tracks ice cream) all week. I was ready to send her off to a boarding school, but she's so darn cute! We are having major discussions about self-control and asking God for help! I'm seriously hoping NOT to repeat any of this next week!
I do hate it when I'm expecting more people and only a few show up! SO many extra munchies and we just don't know what to do with oursleves.
Hope this coming week is better for you. And oh, Galations! Gotta love it.
Lindsee
Hey Amanda
Satan must be working overtime! This pastor's wife had one of those weeks too. Thank your mom for the great reminder.
Love ya
Kristi B.
Amanda,
My prayers are with you! God is with us each an every minute of the day-even during the toilet incident. I wonder what he was thinking.
Aj,
Thanks for the words! My husband is a pastor and we often wonder if ANYTHING we are doing is reaching anyone!!! Your Mom knows just what to say.
We just have to remember that all we have to be is obedient. It is not our fault if people choose to not get involved. My husband often reminds me of Jeremiah. He says we just have to do and say what God wants us to, and if the people choose not to listen that is their problem.
It does grow very weary in ministry though! I whole heartedly agree!!!!
Have a great weekend!
Amanda in SC
Hello Beth and Amanda, I am new here. I have been reading for some time now but this is my first post. I just saw this little poem and felt that you girls just had to read it. I am a new mommy and this just touched me heart!
BABIES DON'T KEEP
Mother, oh Mother,
come shake out your cloth,
empty the dustpan,
poison the moth,
hang out the washing
and butter the bread,
sew on a button and make up a bed.
Where is the mother whose house
is so shocking?
She's up in the nursery,
blissfully rocking.
Oh, I've grown shiftless as Little
Boy Blue (lullaby, rockaby, lullaby loo).
Dishes are waiting and bills are past due
(pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo).
The shopping's not done
and there's nothing for stew
and out in the yard there's a hullabaloo
but I'm playing Kanga and this is my Roo.
Look! Aren't her eyes the most wonderful hue?
(lullaby, rockaby, lullaby loo).
The cleaning and scrubbing
will wait till tomorrow,
for Children grow up,
as I've learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down, cobwebs.
Dust go to sleep.
I'm rocking my baby and babies don't keep......
~Author Unknown ~
Hello Siestas
I do not know how many of you read connorcolesmom's post, but I met her last year at Deeper Still and she is a precious young women!
Please pray for her! I have been in ministry 14 years, have facilitated Beth Moore studies, including Breaking Free, but have never lost anyone to suicide. I cannot imagine what she is going through, but I know the Lord is preparing her for great things!
The enemy cannot and does not win! We know how The Book ends!
To all of you in ministry, especially those of you young ones, the enemy will try to derail you any way he can, but remember you have been set free for eternity and one day Satan will be bound for eternity! Stay strong and in His Word!
Love ya so much!
Kristi B.
Oh, Amanda, I have had those weeks. They've even grown into months before! I've experienced it with Bible studies. You know you have those classes that start out so good, and by the end of the session we dwindle down to about five. Makes you wonder if God's ready for you to move on! But everyone has those seasons...Good time for reflection, perseverance and added prayers!
Love and prayers to you!!!
Well, I think we have all been there. Not that this tidbit makes it any easier, but atleast you aren't alone. Atleast yours was only a week, I feel like mine has been going on for awhile. Not that I should complain, there have been blessings along the way, but I am ready for some reprieve. Hang in there. Thanks for sharing.
So sorry that you had a bad week!
Mine wasn't much better. I haven't been able to sit down right since Tuesday because of my little slip off of the step stool.
I will pray that next week goes much better!
I ditto everyone on the off week! Satan's been having fun with us siestas, hasn't he?! I say messing with us just makes him a bigger loser!
Dear indy lindy
Hnag in there! I can identify with every word you wrote. My husband lost his job because of his honesty(yes this is true) I felt everything you are feeling. It took eight long months for things to turn around BUT God has provided for us every step of the way.My husband and I both have grown tremendously in Him and together.I will pray for you daily. Siestas i had the privilge of knowing a dear woman who shared with me what a bad month was---this is true. She lost her eldest daughter to bowel cancer, her husband was diagnosed with the same cancer, her second daughter 's husband left her and her child alone and her son was fired. When I get overwhelmed with a bad day I think of her :)She still loves the Lord. HE is faithful.Glory!!!
My little boy has often said he wants to follow in his daddy's footsteps and be a worship pastor. How sweet, right??? But then I think oh, honey...maybe I will try and pray you out of that!!! = )
But alas and always God is good!
ahhhh, yes...gotta love toilet water explosions on your clothes.
been there
Amanda, Some days I think it would have been best if I had stayed in bed, but there is to much to do for that. A whole week worth of those days are tough.
The Lord always gets us through.
I hope you have a better week coming soon.
In Christ love, Melissa S.
Did that really happen in the bathroom??? That would have done me in. Bless you sweet one. I hope this week is all but perfect!
I wouldn't have wanted to be in your shoes (or your pants for that matter :) but your stories make me smile and laugh.
I know the previous blog question is closed so feel free to delete this question but I soooooo want to ask it, that I thought I'd try anyhoo.
I've been doing 2 Beth Moore studies a year w/my church but in the summer we stop our studies. What process do you use when you are studying to make the Bible come alive and be so dynamic? Do you read a portion of scripture and then ask lots of questions concerning it? I need to begin to feed myself (at least through the summer) and not depend solely on your wonderful studies. Any suggestions would be great.
Hi gals,
Has anyone looked at the Feb. issue of Southern Living?? The famous "King Ranch Casserole" is in there!!!
Exploding toilets? That definately beats my week, although I had a bad one too. I have a house full of sick kids and enough snow to build an igloo in my back yard. It has been such bad weather that they cancelled Women's Ministry this week at our church. I'm ready for the Spring thaw!
God Bless!
Well, I don't know if it will make you feel any better, but it encouraged me to know that college students are consistently inconsistent everywhere and with everyone. Why does it help to know you're not alone?! :)
Your exploding toilet reminded me of an incident I had with my teenager years ago when he was just a tod. We went to the zoo and he was in his stroller and we were watching the lions. The big King of the Jungle started coming towards us and I thought I was going to have a perfect Kodak moment. Much to our surprise, when he got about 3 feet from us in front of the wire fence, he did a complete turnaround and urinated right in my tod's direction and soaked him down! It was disgusting, shocking, and downright hilarious all at the same time! Needless to say, that was one stinking day!
Hope your week goes better next week.
Hey Siestas, Can you say DRAMA? There is a lot of stuff goin on in your lives! I have purposed to make my treadmill time my prayer time for all of you in Siestaville. It is an awesome time with the Lord lifting you up to the only One who can salvage our bad weeks!
My heart is broken for you Taralynn, my dad passed away two years ago, followed by the death of my mother a year later. It has been a devastating couple of years. I sobbed when I read your post and will be praying diligently for you and your family. I can truly say that God's grace is sufficient. He is El Shaddai, our Caregiver and He will take care of you. I find such great comfort in the shadow of His wings. "Draw near to the Lord and He will draw near to you."
I love each one of you darling women and enjoy so much your honesty, transparency and enthusiasm for the Lord. I can't wait to get to heaven and hug every one of you!
I have sooooo been there before...and after too. :) (err...minus the TOD) Then I swear up and down I'm done...not going to do it again...but for some reason I happen to love people...don't know why. :p
Your study will pick up...it's difficult getting back into the swing of things after a long break.
Don't bubble baths make everything go away?
i award you the excellent blog award. go to my blog to see what it is i'm talking about. thanks so much for making such a wonderful blog for us (all us siestas) to see and feel close to one another on a DAILY basis. thanks,
jenn
:o)
AJ-
The Black Eyed Pea?? I thought you
were supposed to be going to lunch at "NO Whiners Diner" You probably wouldn't have wet jeans if you had!! Hee!! !!Hee!!
I'm sorry you had such a rough day, yup, we ALL have em....I take
a calgon bubble bath by candle light while I listen to worship music and then put myself to bed and look forward to a brand new day to follow!! I praise God "His mercies are new every morning"!!!
Great advise from Mama Beth as usual. Remember the harvest is on it's way!! Don't grow weary girlfriend!!! We love and need and so appreicate what your doing here and I believe there is quite a harvast!! Thanks for planting!!
Much Love,
Angela in Redmond, WA
It's lovely to know I'm never alone....not even in the mayhem of day to day life. My 6 year old started our week with the FLU accompanied with a 103 fever; I thought it was over on Wed until he threw up all over my car which he then refused to ride in until I could prove it was clean. Not to mention I'm the self appointed chairman of his kindergarten school's 1st ever BBQ lunch fundraiser that more than doubled our goal selling 2300 lunches to be delivered next Thursday(praise God,I think, lol). We are also in the final stage of building a house where almost any thing that can go wrong usually does. It's all good though, because of HIM and because of special ladies like you who love HIM so much! Thanks
Praying for you. Hopefully this week will be filled with good things from God.
Dearest Amanda, I am having one of those weeks myself --- I can particularly relate to the TOILET incident, even though, sadly, the wc in question is in my own flat! arrrggh...!! If only I could have a Black Eyed Pea restaurant nearby...( i checked out the menus, and just about created a new, previously undiscovered, body of water in Southeast London right at my computer desk!)
praying for you, hubby and The Tod :) I love you!
maria cristina
I had a week like that too! I give us both permission to take our Bible to bed! (and an extra comfy blanky)
Amanda,
I've had one of the those weeks too! Between a son with strep, a friend of the familys death, finding out my uncle has lung and throat cancer and major snow storm, I just wanted to crawl back in bed and sleep the world away, but I didn't. With a lot of prayer and studying (I'm doing Breaking Free on my own) I got through it!
I'm praying that you and all the other Siestas have a better week!
Blessings,
Missy
Thank You Amanda. Is that horrible to say? And thank you to the siesta that shared Gods word with her--Do you serve Me or do you serve the cirumstance. What a punch in the heart and soul for me. I lead a womans bible study, something I am very new at. Without going into a three page explination, lets just say I am very greatful that you are willing to share that you have off days, and for the encouragement that is somethimes hard to come by.
This week has been a good one but I have had more than my share of ones like you had! I'm praying for you...ok wait....I just prayed for you...I so want to be faithful in that and not just say that!
I am expecting about 15 high school baseball players at my house for the Super Bowl. We so want to sow seeds into them and them gathering here enables us to have time with them. Thankful for the opportunities to serve Him! (Hoping they all show up!)
Keep going Amanda and expect Him to show Himself BIG this next week!
He loves to show off!
Blessings and more prayers,
Theresa
Oh, man! You know. Suddenly I think I had a pretty good week. We had a huge snow storm this week and my kids only had one day of school this week. I was stuck at home the whole week, cause all of my normal activities were cancelled, so I was stuck in our tiny trailer house with all 3 of my children. I thought for sure I was going to lose it. And now I'm not feeling well, so I'm sitting around at home while my family is at church. Although it's a lot quieter than it has been all week. That's kind of nice. I'm a very social person, so it's driving me crazy. After one day it drove me crazy! That's how bad I am about needing to be around people. Especially other women. Not just children and my husband, but the toilet thing really would've gotten to me. Like they would've had to lock me up!!! So I feel for you. I love you, girl.
I just wanted to say, "You ladies are so wonderful!"
Even though I don't know any of you personally I still love you! Your care, encouragement, loving-kindness and faithfulness is so inspiring.
I also will be praying for connorsmom, (what a hard thing to go through) as well as Taralynn819--I wish I could give you a great big hug.
Miss Anonymous in Europe... I'll be praying for you as you prepare to move. I have a friend who had 5 miscarriages before she carried two healthy babies to term. They are beautiful and ornery. :o) Hang in there.
May all of you, whatever your circumstances, experience the hand of the LIVING GOD upon your lives this upcoming week. I pray you see his fingerprints all over the place. And thank you for posting.
Blessings in Christ.
Anna in MO
Dearest Taralynn, How my heart aches for you and your family. I walked through a very similar experience just over 2 years ago. I pray Jesus makes His presence obvious and overwhelming to you in the weeks and months ahead. That your entire family may know His comfort and peace, regardless of the day's news and decisions. And that you are strengthened each day and reassured that you are never alone in walking through this trial and grief. He is mighty and in control - when nothing else makes sense, I found peace there. Love, Elizabeth
The journey continues~
Amanda, Beth, Melissa, LPM ~
Just wanted the Siesta's to know that I pray for all their prayer requests when they are listed on this blog.
With "Heaven Bound" blessings,
Kim Safina ~ Central coast California
Thank you so much for this post. I am a regular reader, but haven't commented before--but this post was so timely for me. I struggle with discouragement when ladies quit or never show up for Bible studies. Thanks for sharing and the encouragement.
Amanda,
I've never responded to one of your blogs, but this one I just had too.
I've been in college ministry for a while now too and have experienced a night like yours sooo many times. I try "hang out" nights often and it always seems to be less effective than the teaching nights! Who'd have thought?!?!
Hope this semester goes well for you!
Oh precious girl, I had to laugh. I'm sorry. I mean, just about the toilet water part.
Lisa
Amanda-
My computer was off all weekend so I just read your blog...it is now the beginning of a new week...do things look brighter yet?
I pray they do! Thank you for your willingness to serve...even when things don't go your way! You blessed the Lord by preparing for an army...even if you have the left overs to prove it!
AJ- I know just what you mean.Sometimes I think I have off months not jsut weeks. I hope this week has started off much better for you. Showers of blessing on your day.
Amanda and Beth
Couldn't find an e-mail address to send this to for either of y'all, so I am posting it in hopes you will find it here. I'm not sure if you have seen it yet, possibly so, but if not, please go to the following website, www.rickandbubba.com and listen to "A Father's Heart".
Rick Burgess, popular southeastern radio personality, gave the most phenomenal testimony at his 2 year old son's memorial service a couple of weeks ago. Such a blessing to hear the Lord speaking through him. And bring a box of kleenex with you!
Thanks for the blog---I thoroughly enjoy it and some days it is the biggest blessing to hear from you both.
Bless Your Heart!!!!! Thanks for sharing. Isn't it funny how when one thing goes wrong, it seems like everything else goes wrong too?! You have such a good attitude. I remember when my kids were little, one of my toddlers had diarrhea at Chuck E. Cheese all over her clothes so I took my sons shirt off of him to put on her. We had to go to K-Mart next because there was only one Big Bird costume left. While in K-Mart with a shirtless son and a pantless daughter, my other daughter was sitting in the cart and said, I feel sick and proceeded to throw up all over the floor. On impulse, I tried to catch it, so I had red Koolaide throw up all over me, my hands and the floor of K-Mart. We were quite a sight, but did get the Big Bird costume. I look back now and laugh.
Amanda!! A TOILET exploded on you?!?! LOL!!! I know that it wasn't funny when it happened, but surely you're laughing now :O
You are simply a hoot! Thanks so much for giving us all a giggle out here in siestaland!
This blog is so wonderful. It gives the rest of us a chance to feel like we're a part of your family.
God bless you all. . .
Tracie, Fairfield Ohio
I'm so relieved that I wasn't the only one who had a rough one last week (and weekend!). Thanks for your encouragement...really needed it this morning.
All the best!
Lynn
Oh..those kind of weeks....I love the comment you put at the end of your entry about what your Mom said. I wish I had had that wisdom a long time ago in my ministry!!!!
You are such a blessing even in a bad week!
In Christ
Ginny
I don't know if anyone will come back and read this, but I just wanted to say THANK YOU to everyone who said they would pray for me and my family. I was so encouraged and blessed by that!!
I don't get to read too many of the comments, but I did see those. Thank you so much!
Melanie in Germany (newly pregnant; moving to Florida with hubby, daughter and 4 cats!)
Okay, maybe because I'm pushing 40 and have been in a reflective mood lately, but I think God's given me insight into my own paralyzing thought-life...
I have weeks like yours, and then some. And my initial thought is almost always to say, "As soon as things settle down, then..." And the "then" is to do the things I should be doing (reaching out to someone else, serving in a new way, etc.).
I think God is showing me that I need to act now, in the moment, because things will never settle down!
I read a quote from Rick Warren who said he used to think of life as a series of hills and valleys (high and low points). Now, he thinks of life as two parallel tracks of blessings and trials...the blessings and trials run side-by-side all the time. This visual really resonated with me...I'm not waiting for the next "hill" anymore...instead, I'm focusing on the blessing amidst the trial.
You seem to have figured this out long ago (and good for you! especially since you are nowhere near 40 - I love when younger women hit on a truth that people like me take years to understand)! I admire your attitude and am cheering you on!
Just reading this post. Funny how I needed to read it today! God is so in control.
Blessings,
Tanya
Amanda,
I just wanted to thank both your mother and you for all that you have done through Living Proof Ministries. I have read Get Out of That Pit and been a part of women's bible study: A Heart Like His, When Godly People Do Ungodly Things, Believing God, Living Beyond Yourself, The Patriarchs, and Daniel. I have completed Breaking Free on my own. I am currently in a women's bible study group completing Stepping Up. Everyday, I am humbled to my knees and face down knowing where my life would be without the Lord and God's Word.
Phillippians 4:7-And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds through Christ Jesus.
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